Am I difficult, strange or too kind?

Question

My birthday is coming up in 2 weeks or so...

I don't want a present, right?

But no, my mom insists on getting me something, even if it were as expensive as $300 herself, since I never ask for anything or want anything.

I don't like parties or want one for my birthday... but she insists for the same reasons. It's my 16th birthday, what's so great about it? I don't understand...

My best friendgirl (not girlfriend) wants to go to the movies with me for my birthday since I don't want a party. She won't let me pay her back for 6$ I owed her from some stuff back in the past. So I said I'll pay for the movie tickets and the popcorn and sodas in place of the 6$, but no, she won't let me. She says she'll pay 'cause it's my birthday... I wanna pay since it's my birthday and it's my wish.

I was arguing with her on that while she was away for a week in some other states. I wanna give her a mini-welcome-back present or card, but she won't let me, but I'm gonna do it anyway and disappoint her. She never wants anything, neither do I, I want to pay, but she does too. I will win!

So what do you think? She says I'm all three. Do you agree? (That rhymed... three... agree. :D )

Answer 1

honestly you're strange.  

Answer 2

you're being quite difficult and stubborn. (:

you're only sixteen once! live it to its fullest.

don't be so modest, it's your birthday and it's

something you're suppose to rejoice and have fun.

be happy you have a family and friends who want to

celebrate it for you. :D

Maddi<3

Answer 3

You should be gracious and allow them to treat you. Remember they love you and that is why they are doing it for you, it will make them feel good to do something for you, don't take that nice feeling away from them.

Answer 4

I think you're a bit of all three. Just let people treat you and stop being so nice. It's your bday, do what you want, just enjoy it and remember they're only trying to please you. ^^

Answer 5

i think your taking the whole can pay for myself the wrong way

tell your mom to put the money on a saving acount for you that you can use for emergencies later

they just love you and want to do something nice for you, there is a difference between that and buying you out, you have to allow people to apriciate you  

Answer 6

Tbh i think your being difficult, it's your birthday so its like tradion that they buy you things!! Cant you just enjoy it? lol