Am I falling in love or is it lust?

Question

I met a guy last Thursday at school. For a week we've been talking on the phone, seeing each other every day, getting to know each other better, etc. I can't stop thinking about him. I miss him right now. He says that he likes me a lot and can see us together forever. We're both very physically attracted to each other. I think he's gorgeous he thinks I'm beautiful. Today he told me that he loved me. Then he changed it to he loves being with me. Do you think he's falling for me? I feel like I am falling in love with him. I'm always smiling when he's around. I can't stop staring at his pictures and just thinking about him. He's already introduced me to his mom. We've bene on dates and we hold hands, cuddle, and flirt and stuff. He intoduces me to ppl as his gf. Do you think we could be falling in love? What are some symptoms? Thanks.

Answer 1

The test of love happens only after the "feelings" go away.   The infatuation feelings come and go (that's the feeling of "falling in love" part).  

True love is not a feeling.   It's a decision, a decision you make to accept and love a person when the feelings go away, when other cute guys walk by, or when others pay nice attention to you.   That's an example of the test of true love, but if you want true love you are the one that makes that happen.   At the same time, that's why it's so important that you carefully choose who you love and who you "fall in love" with.   Because it's easy to confuse the two.

The fact that you are asking this question, shows that you are well on your way to finding true love someday.

Answer 2

I think what you're going through now is infatuation. It's kind of like lust. It's what you feel before you're actually in love.

Answer 3

You don't fall in love with someone in a week. Lust. Lust and hormones working you over. Thinking about someone all the time, missing them when they're gone, wanting to get physical with them - is lust and (possibly) infatuation. At this age, your hormones are very very strong, and your brain is not yet fully developed. Not trying to be condescending, sorry if this comes across that way. Those are just medical facts.  

Answer 4

dont worry its just a case of gas