Am I falling out of love?

Question

I'm trying to give my boyfriend space so he can hangout with his friends; but its been a while since we have actually hung out ourselves. i don't want to be the type of girlfriend that needs to be with him all the time. But it would be nice to be with him once in a while.

And lately its like I'm use to not seeing him, like I don't miss him like I use to. Like I don't feel the same anymore.

Answer 1

You two are just caught up in doing your own thing without each other. I know it's hard, but it's good that you two know how to handle giving each other space and being on your own. I think you're kind of having separation anxiety. You know you're going to be away from him more, and you're getting used to it, so you've stopped missing him as much.

I don't think you've fallen out of love with your boyfriend. You just need to spend a little more time with him. If you didn't care for him, you wouldn't be worried about this situation at all. Just balance staying close to him and giving him the space he needs, and when you're with him, try to remember why you fell in love with him in the first place. That should get you back on the right track. :)

Answer 2

You don't NEED him period.  Fall in love with yourself.

That is an act of self-love.  It's a gift.

Answer 3

Hmmmm.....