My boyfriend and I have been dating since October of 2006. I was 16 at the time and he was 17. We have been dating for two years and so that would make me 18 and he is now 19.
I guess I'll start off by explaining a bit of our relationship. We had an amazing first year until he was to move to FL and I stayed in VA. Two months after he left, a new friend of mine had told me that he had cheated on me, during the first two months of our relationship and that right before he left he also had cheated on me again. I couldn't believe my ears, right when I got home I asked him about it and he confessed. Two weeks later I told him "once a cheater always a cheater" and left him. I pretty much cried for the next four months and then started dating someone to heal the pain, meanwhile, my ex was still texting/calling regularly crying and wanting me back. After dating the rebound guy for about two weeks I realized I still love my ex and started to talk to him again ( I had ignored him for the four months he still called and texted.) He came to visit once during the four months but my heart was still shattered and couldn't take it. I figured, he's still fighting for me after the six months and gave him a chance to show me he's changed. He really has and he's like a completely different man in the way he thinks and acts. I visited him in July for a month and his mom took me into a room and told me how he was suicidal and extremely depressed he had to go on pills because the depression was even making him puke blood, he lost weight, and I really believed he regretted it. His mom told me about the talks they had how I was the one, he didn't even go out, and he still has no friends in FL because all he cares about is me.
So here we are back together. We're planning on moving in together in two months and if all goes well, in a year, (me 19, he's 20) will get married. I was just wondering what other people thought?
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