Am I in the wrong here???

Question

Me and a close friends of mine fell out, it all started with this new guy friend of mine, I met at a temp assignment I worked, we became myspace pals, and so he would send me a messge to say hello, or asking me to go out, and so my closed friend,sent me a message saying "oh who is he, he is very cute" which can be viewed by everyone, and so after that she would always ask about him, and I would bascially tell her, we;re just friends.Well a few days ago I instant mesaged my supposedly"best friend" of 13 years, to say hello, and I ask her "so how's the family" and she says Good!, How's your boyfriend"talking about my new friend, I tell her he's good, and then she starts asking me, does he have a girlfriend, and tells me she wants to meet him, and so I tell her "Why" and to "Stop asking me about my friend" and she tells me she just thinks we should hook up, since I haven't had a boyfriend in a few years, and tells me that she does not want him, and I tell her to just drop it, it's not a big deal, but then she asks me why I have an attitude, and he must be young, and all this c**p, and then I tell her to stop pressing the issue before it escalate into something else, and she tells me that she doesn;'t want to talk to anymore..and I'm wondering should I apologize, am I in the wrong?

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plus, she does little things, like invite my ex-boyfriend to her birthday party, when I was out of town, then asking about another guy I was involved with at work, I just don't know If I am being insecure, or she's just nice..

Answer 1

i think it's mostly your business, and she was apparently being kinda and wouldn't stop bothering you about it. so i don't think you were doing anything wrong. maybe you could have tried to be more polite. not like you were being rude, but just saying.

Answer 2

wow you have alot to say

Answer 3

i think shes just jealous and hurt that you are hanging w. someone else thats not her. im totally not joking and trying to be mean by this, but maybe she has a crush on u

Answer 4

You are not in the wrong with friends like her who needs enemies. She is the kind of friend when your back is turned will stab you in it. I have had friends like her and when my back was turned she slept with my boy friend.

Answer 5

I think you should let your friends do whatever they want,  nobody likes to be told what to do,  and if she steps on you,  then you should stop being her friend.  But she didn't do anything wrong, really.  And you will always come off as really pushy,  if you try to keep people from doing bad things to you.  You should give people who you are close to and like the benefit of the doubt,  If you have a hard time doing that,  then you should ask yourself, "  Why do I want this person as a friend, if I think they are that bad of a person"    And choose your friends wisely.  But if you like this friend of yours,  which I believe you used the word,  best friend in there,  then you shouldn't be so pushy,  yes you were wrong.