Am I introvert, or nerd or crazy or what???

Question

I really need to talk to someone, but i'm so shy!!

I'm closest to my mother, but guess what, there are many things that i want to tell her, but don't have the guts, besides don't want to feel embarrased.

I don't know why i can't really concentrate when people are talking to me.

I have a crush over two persons and don't know what to do.

I'm so disappointed cause i can't drive so well yet.

Why do I feel this way? Can anyone please tell me what's wrong with me? Answers appreciated. Thanks.

Answer 1

Hi jojo my sweet friend thanks for starring all my questions it really means u took time to read all my questions..so sweet of U.. thanks..

and about ur answer i want to say a lot to U.. maybe sometime later on mails coz i am feeling too slepy now... but in short from what i have observed about U from ur questions and answers is u r very intellectual and intelligent girl..

if u are introvert then its ok.. everyone is intovert to an extent... u don,t have to change urself be what u r..plus lot of extroverts r fake by nature(not everyone but most).. just try to open up a bit and yeah u don,t have to share everything thing to ur mother.. I am sure u might be having atleat 1 or 2 close friends with whom u can share everything.. even about ur crushes.. u must have friends true even though if its just 1not a group of fake people.. u can,t share ur secrets like that of crushes with ur parents.. and what to do about ur crushes.. nothing... just talk with them ... if u r shy to talk ..just give a smile when u see them next.. and its ok don,t take all this things so much serious ... life is fun... enjoy it

Answer 2

you just sound young to me.

but you could try talking to a school counselor, or teacher.

Answer 3

The reason you "feel" that way is because you "think" that way.  Or change your thinking, change your feeling.  You have a lot of fear.  Shyness and  embarrassment are manifestations of fear.  What is to fear?  Do you think that you will die if you are embarrassed?  I'd guess you are shy because you are "afraid" of being embarrassed.  Which is a fear of rejection.  Although no one enjoys rejection it will not kill you.  If you start saying the things you want you may "feel" embarrassed but as you find the the sky will not fall on you it will get easier the more you talk about what you want. If you don't start talking you will have what seems like the world fall on you and regret not having the courage to speak up.

$.05 please

Lucy P

Answer 4

Nothing is wrong with you. you are perfectly normal.  your close to your mother but some things you want  to keep to yourself. also normal. it's a crush on two guys. it's weird talking to your mom about those things.  you have a short attention span also normal. You don't seem crazy or introverted. You feel close to your mom than other people.  your just learning how to drive so of course you feel disappointed you can't drive well. You want to drive badly but feel you suck.  Your growing up. You have diffrent emotions. Your normal.  

Answer 5

You are young. There is a lot for you to experience. Some may be more threatening than others. But it's a part of living.

Calm down and ask yourself what you want.

A friend?

Improve your ability?

Or what?

And how do you achieve them?

Good luck.