Am I just a jealous friend?

Question

My best friend started dating this guy a week after she broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years and a few months before moving away to college. For the time between then and now, shes spending a whole bunch of time and almost every night (not sleep over) most weeks with this boy unless she planned a piece of a day with her friends to go do something like movies or eating then she goes right to the boys house or his friends house. For some reason I'm hating this so much. I guess its the fact that my best friend is leaving out of state to go to college and it's my 2nd best friend whom has moved in the past 2 years so it's hard especially since shes been the best friend ever. I think she should be spending this last couple weeks she has with her true friends and family before leaving instead of a boy that's just making her feel warm and fuzzy now and hes just going to be another thing to be upset about when leaving. So im now stuck at home instead of being out spending as much time with my best friend while shes out with this boy. Am I a jealous friend or what???????

-Confused

Answer 1

you're not jealous. you're hurting. and i dont blame you. because you dont deserve to be treated like that. its not right. tell your friend the truth. you are feeling very neglected and left out. she will probably feel really bad about it, and im sure she didnt mean to hurt you.

hope this helps :]

Answer 2

You're not jealous, you just want to spend more time with your friend b4 she leaves. The only thing to do here is to talk to her about it, tell her you want to spend more time with her before she leaves but that doesn't mean that she can't see that boy anymore.

Answer 3

I would say that you are a little jealous, but more upset because you best friend is leaving and shes not spending time with you. In my opinion, boyfriends come and go, but true friendship lasts a life time. Talk to her and tell her how you feel, maybe she will understand.

Answer 4

You haven't done anything wrong. You aren't jealous. Your friend is leaving you out a little to much. Maybe you could sit down with your friend and explain your feelings. Don't just say, You're leaving me out!, Or why do you like that guy anyway? Tell her the real reasons, support your facts, be mature. Make your friend realise what she is doing.