Am I just overreacting?

Question

Yes, this is STILL the same girl I've been asking about.

So I was (and still am, kinda) convinced this girl likes me. She gave all the right signs. When we were talking about scary movies, she said she'd be willing to "cower in my shoulder". At the movie theatre, she didn't have any money and I agreed to pay for her (she's not a gold digger because she called ahead of time and said if I couldnt pay for her, she'd borrow from a friend), so the whole time it felt like a date At the actual movie, she brought a friend, and they whispered the whole time and kept looking at me! I heard her friend say "Take his hand! Hold his hand!" Then, at the end of the movie, the girl I like asked her friend for chapstick and asked if I could hang out I couldn't, but she gave me a big hug befoe I left so, I was think she likes me back.

But today she didn't reply to any of my texts. she added me on Myspce, but didn't comment back when I commented her...(she was online too). Am I just being paranoid?

Answer 1

yes ur being paranoid. she might not have been able to text u back and she might not have been at her computer even tho it was signed on. dont seem too eager to be with her. dont be not eager enuf either. u need to find the right balance between not caring enuf and stalker-ish. but i definitely think she likes you back. so keep at it until u got her!

Answer 2

Yes, but you are a teenager, so you are allowed.

Answer 3

Maybe shes just really shy?

Answer 4

She probably likes you she is either doing one of two things she is either playing hard to get or she is shy

Answer 5

Honestly, you are a little paranoid. But totally justified.

Since it seems to me you guys are young, and this is a typically date for a young person. Girls travel in packs, bring friends on dates in the beginning, and don't reply back right away.

Totally normal teenage stuff.

I would say y our next move could be... inviting her over for a scary movie with you and maybe a friend of yours. Chose a nice guy!!! This guy will be your wing man and the guy who will be sitting next to her friend. Leaving you a clear path to your girl.

Also try text messaging. "Did U Have Fun?" Keep it simple and sweet.  She will come around.

Answer 6

The thing is do not be to needy i really like this boy he would never leave me alone so now i hate him just let her go to you.

Answer 7

PARANOID.

She probably didn't have time to text, and when Myspace says your online, chances are, you've been OFF for a few minutes and your "online now" option hasn't adjusted yet.

Answer 8

Yeah. If it's anything girls don't like is someone who is too pushy. Just let it happen, if she responds she responds, if not then, lesson learned

Answer 9

Girls sometimes send mixed messages or play games.

Just give it time I am sure it will work out fine.

Answer 10

The best way:

Say "Do you like me?"

:)

Answer 11

I think it's just a small crush. You should try pulling the first move, and see what her reaction is. If she reacts well, then keep going.

If she doesn't, you'll know she doesn't like you.

Answer 12

no maybe u shud jus let her come to u...let her txt u and comment u ect...ya kno..u dont wanna act like a stalker

Answer 13

sometimes things come up..i mean if u say she didn't comment you back and all..you should send her a message instead of them myspace comments..but anyways if u heard her friend say hold his hand and all that..she must like you...just let time go on and see what happens...u could also ask her on another date and this time whatever the date is you could hold her hand or something like that...

Answer 14

Dude, I was in the same exact situation! Like about the myspace and text thing.

But, dont get paranoid about it. Just think positive like "I bet her phone died" or something like that.

When it happened to me, I was paranoid and the next day she commented me back =]

Answer 15

Let her come to you, there's no rush. you still have plenty of time to work on your relationship.

Answer 16

dude your just begin paroniod i go through the same thing im 15. i hung out with this girl and then i called her the next day she didnt answer so i know wat your going through just be patient she will text you or comment you back it takes time

Answer 17

Maybe she doesn't know what to say. Take it easy. Give her some time.