Am I just too emotional or would you think the same thing.?

Question

OK, my husband of three years has always acted normal and been loving. We just had our first baby in march and now we have another one on the way due April 3, 2009. Since he found out I am pregnant, he has been running out all over the place. He wakes up, trip to BR, then cigarrette, then he leaves and I don't see him again until 2 or 3 in the morning. Then the next day it all starts over. A few times he has come home and went straight to the shower. Other nights he comes home smelling of different colognes when he knows I am allergic to virtually ALL perfumes and colognes. I swear I think he is cheating on me. I sit at home and cry and cry and cry. I feel like I can't do this anymore. He never offers any help. He says he'll do one thing then the next day he says he never said that. He has started going outside to talk on the phone and gets mad when I open the door. When I confront him with my thoughts he says I am acting stupid and being a ******. And if I am not happy with him anymore I should just leave. Why would he say that? I don't know what to do. Am I just apranoid and over emotional??What would you think is going on if you were in this situation??

Answer 1

sorry, but try not to think the worst. get a friend or someone to be a private investigator and follow him around!! cuz if you ask him if hes doing something hes going to say no, even if he is!!!! the if you have proof of him cheating you can take him to court and get him for everything hes got!!!!

Answer 2

TALK TO HIM....you'll never feel ok until you do. You need to eliminate stress from your life so the only way to get this over with one way or another is to tell him your fears.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Hmm, he is probably overracting to the fact that with 2 babies, he definitely won't be able to do what he wants, when he wants, how he wants. Thats very important to guys. Tell him to chill the h**l out, and talk about it. If he has found someone else(hopefully not) then he needs to at least respect you enough to tell you. GL

Answer 4

I think he is just stressed out with knowing about the second baby. Men don't take to kindly to change, especially in the children department. It might just take him some time to cool down and relax and get back to normal.

I don't think he's cheating on you - that other person is stupid. I think hes just stressed.

Answer 5

You should definitely talk to him. My mind would jump to the same conclusion yours did.

Good luck!

Answer 6

He is cheating.  Suddenly calling you a stupid ***** and telling you to leave if you don't like it???

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Answer 7

Well, in my honest opinion. I think that something is going on. He most likely is cheating if he's acting like that.

Try talking to him about it. And if he doesn't change, let him know you are going to leave if he doesn't clean up his act. And if he doesnt, take a break and go live with someone close to you for a while. He's likely to come crawling back to you.

Good Luck

Answer 8

I wouldn't say he is or isn't cheating and being suspecting will only make matters worse or drive you crazy.  The best thing to do is just talk through your feelings with him w/o being accusing.  He could just be stressed out with the fact that there will be 2 children to take care of now or yes, he could be cheating.  However, I will say that calling your pregnant wife a ***** is never acceptable...it's just used too often that women forget we deserve a little bit more respect...however, you do have to give respect to get some, but still names are just uncalled for...we're all grown-ups now.