Am I just too over-dramatic?

Question

Okay, my boyfriend/fiancee and me have been dating for a little over 10 months..I am 7 months pregnant with his child. A couple weeks ago, he told me that he kind of wants to date other girls but, still date me because he's only dated 3 girls including me. After awhile, I was just like whatever do what you want then, he said he doesn't want to date other girls and only be with me because he loves me. He's majorly obsessed (I know it's normal for guys to be but, he's majorly majorly obsessed) with girls b*****s. He asked me since he's not going to date other girls if offered if he could stare at a girl topless. I was like okay..because I thought it was normal because, he's a guy. He went into a Yahoo! Chat room with my brother trying to get girls naked on web cam for them. About 2 weeks ago, when he was in one of these chats, he started talking to this girl from China. He asked me if it was okay if he dated her. He started dating her and he deleted there conversations from his message archive so I couldn't read them. Last night, he was talking to this girl on my brothers yahoo name and she was on web cam for him and I told him I changed my mind about him being able to look at girls b*****s..I was like you promise me you won't ask her to flash her? He said I don't know. When he was done talking to her, he deleted the conversation they had and is acting all secretive and I don't know..I just really don't know what to do. Is this normal for a guy to do? What should I do?? Sorry, if this was long I tried to make it as short as I could.

Answer 1

my boyfriends parents have dated since 15 and are still happily married. his mom was his dads only girlfriend. so dating 3 girls isnt an excuse.

and i wouldnt want my boyfriend looking at other girls half naked. figure out what your standards are..

Answer 2

wow if you didnt have his kid i would say to leave him right then and there you can not let him look at other girls or date other girls hello hes supposed to be your fiance thats not just obsessed thats cheating pretty much that is not normal at all tell him you will leave if he keeps seeing her thats not cool at all.

Answer 3

at first i was like its natural especially since hes only dated 3 chicks and already having a kid. but idk with this. i say be a sneaky b*****d and set up a hidden camera near the comp zoomed in. or call cheaters they pay you.nah but  i think you should talk to this asian lady and ask her whats up on a differnt qaqccount but dont let her know its you and stuff. or go to a  relationship counselor. sorry im not much help.

Answer 4

1st-ly you should know that he has it in his mind that he has you on lock-down because you are carrying his child and feels that you have no choice but to stick with him for the sake of the child.

No baby girl, lay down the rules as from today so that it will help you and your child tomorrow.

The term >door mat< comes to mind which meens you are now letting this guy walk all over you.

having a child is supposed to be a joyus and loving time between two people, and not what is going through his mind, and belive me when i tell you that he is thinking along the lines of >> wow, now i'm going to be stuck with one woman for the rest of my life and i havent sampled all the other goodies out there as yet, let me test the waters with (you) and see what i can get away with under the umbrella of saying"its a man thing" <<

You can have a very good joke at his expence by tell him about the Lady-Boys in China that pretend they are a real female and have dozons of guys like him admiering what he looks like now as a female. Get my drift ?

Also, if he say's his into women with larg breast's, you should remind him how much a pregnant womens breast become at this time, and what he is going to miss out on if he does not change his ways as from today.