Am I making a big deal of this?

Question

my roomate and I were good friends. she bought a 3 month unlimited skype pass, so she gave me password so I can use it too. I used it and figured that I can buy it next time.

then after 3 months is over, she was charged again. she accused me of logging onto her account and renewed it using her credit card... well basically she said I am a thief.

I was pissed off, it's an insult. I told her to call skype and find out. she finally did, and they told her that her account was auto renewed.

now she wants to be good friends again. I don't really feel like. am I making a big deal of the little thing? thanks.

Answer 1

Your anger is your first reaction. And I would be mad too. However, your roommate realized she was wrong and hopefully apologized for it. If so, make ammends but just be a little more watchful of borrowing anything else... lol

Answer 2

i dont think so. it says a lot about her character and what she thinks of you if she would EVEN CONSIDER the possibility that you would do something like that.  

Answer 3

look sometimes when i can;t find an item of clothing i think one of the neighbours took it off the clothes line

Answer 4

Maybe you should give her some money for it and explain that it hurt you that she though you were a thief.

Answer 5

yes u are making a big deal. just get it over with  

Answer 6

yes and no. i think she went crazy and now probablyfeels dumb so u should accept her apology, but dont be as close to her anymore b/c its obviously a FINE line between ur friendship. not a real friend. i wouldnt fight w/ a friend over somethign liek that. i would get mad but not to the point where it ends a relationship. u were obviously not in the wrong on this one. it was all her

Answer 7

If this is your roommate you should probably just get over it.

Answer 8

i don't think your making a big deal of it

I would have probably reacted the same way

if your not a thief then your own friend should trust you instead of calling you one  

Answer 9

It's pretty S****y of her to accuse you right off the bat like that.  I guess you have to figure out whether you can get over it enough to keep living with her.  You might just want to be a little wary of how she is going to react to things now, which is never good for people who live together.  

Answer 10

Lose a friend over this......

please tell me your joking such a conflict can be resolved in 10 mins

Answer 11

I'd be pretty ticked off to if my roommate insinuated that I stole from her.. BUT then I'd figure out if the friendship was worth it to let it go or just forgive and forget. She made a mistake, granted it was a really mean one, but she's human and is allowed her faults. If you've been pretty good so far, don't let this get in between your friendship. **** happens and you just have to deal.

Answer 12

yes

Answer 13

No, i dont think your making a big deal out of it. I would be really upset too! But life is to short to be mad all the time. I only wish for my ex room mate to apologize for all the bull **** she put me through. just so i can be friends again. all im saying is forgive and forget. and its ok to be angry. You have every right to be.

and if you wanna talk about room mate troubles!!! ha ha just email me hun and i can make your roomate seem like an angel.

Answer 14

If she hasn't apologized to you at this point, I would understand you being upset. If that isn't the case, kiss and makeup with her and just move on.

Answer 15

well you do have to live with her. just tell her not to ***** at you anymore when she doesn't even have proof that you did it