Am I normal, please help?

Question

I never understood the big deal about getting a girlfriend. Thats all people talk about from their high school to college years. I never understood it. I never had a girlfriend and never really wanted one. And no, I am not some fat nerd. I am 21 years old with a fit body. I am a very handsome man, many girls have crushes on me and women stare at me all the time. But I never feel the urge to get a girl. And no I'm not g*y which many seem to think. I am not attracted to men at all. Is this normal? I mean I do feel an attraction towards women but I just don't want their companionship. I have a very poor relationship with my mother, could that be a reason I feel this way?

Answer 1

"I am a very handsome man"  good for you !

Answer 2

try to spend nights with girls talk to each other do a bit s*x the problem may solve

Answer 3

Hmmm... well, the question is - do you feel a *sexual* attraction towards women? If not, then you might be asexual. If you do feel a sexual attraction toward them, but just don't feel a strong enough urge to sit through the boring things they have to say so that you can sleep with them, then welcome to the club. Don't get me wrong, there are cool girls out there - but they are definitely the minority (at least where I'm from). I can't stand the way most chicks brains think. They're so into materialistic bullshit (money & power), and their brains are so fixated on imagery - it's like they'd rather see something for what it appears to be rather than what it really is. They're so god d**n judgmental and sometimes it almost disgusts me to the point that I get turned off completely. It gets to the point with me to where I'd rather m********e and be by myself then have some nagging ***** take all my money and dictate the way I live (this was my life at the age of 20 and I had to stay drunk to get through it).  

Answer 4

I'm no shrink !! but actually ur relationship with ur mother is the very 1st relationship for a boy with a female .... i dnt kknw if that effects ur other relationships that u dnt even want or have ... but do u even appreciate women ?? if you dnt then YES !! you have problem ..if not then it's okay that ur still not in a reltionship cause that makes ur odds to be with ur 1st and only love rlly GD !!  could u help me out then =D

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Answer 5

Don't worry, you probably have other priorities in your life, maybe your career or education, and simply don't feel the need to be in a relationship. That's perfectly okay! There's nothing wrong with simple and casual dating from time to time instead of being in a comitted relationship. I don't think the connection between you and your mother is keeping you from wanting a woman in your life - the way I see it, you are an independent person who knows what he wants and the time will come when you are ready to start dating seriously.