Ok, I have depression and Borderline personality Disorder, i'm 21 and have been suffering for a few years and trying my best to deal with it. I have a key worker and lately some of her actions have annoyed me but i am not sure if i am justified in feeling this way because she is usually nice but I feel a bit hurt and neglected by things (which maybe is due to the BPD)
Recently i have been trying to approach the subject of being sexually abused and she told me that we would set the time aside and deal with it on the next appointment before she went off on holidays. I prepared myself that week in advance- it's not the easiest thing to discuss. On the day, she arrives 20Min's late from seeing another client and then as we sit down tells me we have to cut the session short because she has to go to a wake of a man in the departments mother who had passed away. she apologised but didn't seem to realise how upset I was about it. so that was it and she went off on holidays.
I had a really bad week when she was off and even burst out in tears in front of my gp who i have been seeing regular for over a year and never cried in front of. anyway I seen my key worker again on tuesday and the receptionist didn't let my key worker know i was there so i was sitting for half an hour. during my session I spent the whole time crying i was just overwhelmed with depression and emotions in general. I just about get an hours session, abit under and she says "i'll see you in a fortnight" and then has to go see another client.
Yesterday morning i woke up feeling i was taking a breakdown and I rang her (which is who i am supposed to ring) and she was away on a course. I rang my gp and couldn't get an appointment with her. I sat and cried alone for an hour realiseing how I have no support. I rang back the deptment and asked if they could contact my key worker at her course, they said they would try and would definately leave a message for her to ring me today.
Today I waited till half two and she didn't ring. I rang and she answered saying she was going to a meeting but would ring me back because she was there till 5 anyway. I sat for 2 and a half hours waiting on her to ring back and she didn't and I am so angry and upset! I feel like i am worthless and she couldn't even give me 10mins time and yet shes always telling me to ring!
Please don't start telling me i am too reliant on her because I doubt seeing someone for 2 1hr sessions a month is dependant and who else am i supposed to ring for help! she works for the NHS so i don't pay her. Is this acceptable from her, do i have a right to be severly peed off!!?
thanks
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