Am I over him or not? What do you think?

Question

Back in May, my boyfriend broke up with me. It was a short relationship, though, so I got over it fairly easily by the end of the summer, but now that I'm seeing him again in school, I feel pangs of anger and sadness every time I see him. I have accepted the fact that our relationship as lovers (per se) is over, but I still have a sort of longing for him, but I don't think it's a romantic one. After the break-up, I kind of lashed out and said some things behind his back, and he confronted me about it, and I thoroughly apologized, but when I tried to talk to him about a month later, he was very tight-lipped. I just feel like I should try to apologize again; maybe he's calmed down since then.

What should I do? =/

Answer 1

i think you are over him your just worried about change. it sounds really cliche but time is a healer and i think if you give him time he will come round. He may be feeling quite down about it too (even if he did the breaking up). Give it some time and maybe try talking to him about it again? hope it works out x

Answer 2

No you already apologized.No need to keep flogging a dead horse hon.

If you go through the same thing again in the future though, you need to not be childish and vindictive towards your ex.