Am I overreacting? ?

Question

My fiance's mom lives next door. while we were on vacation she checked our mail. today (3 days later) I go in her house and find 2 of my magazines that come through the mail on her table. I had been wondering where they were at. She acted like whatever. I was irritated and snappped at my boyfriend about it. He says im overreating! opinions please?

Answer 1

Yeah, you're over reacting.

Answer 2

No.

It's ILLEGAL to open someone else's mail, whether it be e-mail or one that requires a stamp.

Answer 3

no u r not overreacting I hate it when people do that and it is illegal to take or open someone Else's mail!!

Answer 4

No and yes.

If I put myself in your shoes I would be irritated about it too. If my fiance's mother did not give me two of my magazines and acted like whatever, I would be very irritated.

But why snap at your boyfriend? Snap at his mother! Coming from a guys point of view, we don't like when our girlfriends snap at us for things other people did. I broke up with my last girlfriend for that very reason. She would yell at me for things other people did to her. She would be irritated with them and take it out on me.

Answer 5

yuh

snap at the mom, not your boyfriend

and she was probably trying to be nice by checking it for you while you were away...just tell her not to next time.