So far everyone I have asked says that I am not over reacting, but it is friends & family. I want to make sure I am getting an honest opinion. My husband & I have an 18 month old, and one on the way. He has an 8 year old son from a previous marriage. We get to see his son one weekend a month & during vacations. I understand my husband does not see his son everyday, but is spending $300 to $500 in a weekend on him a little much? Every time my step son visits my husband feels the need to take him somewhere fun, exciting and expensive & buy him new toys & video games. I feel he can spend good quality time with his son without spending nearly as much money.
Also, what are good age appropriate chores for an 8 year old boy? I have my step son set the table and make sure is games are picked up (half the time that does not happen) & he earns $20 in the weekend he is here. For $20, I feel he could do an additional small chore when he visits.
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