Am I paranoid or is something just wrong?

Question

Alright, so this happened just a few hours back...this male colleague of mine, age 30+ single, drove me home from our workplace to my home and the journey was kinda long. This is the second time he's driving me away from my workplace but the first time with only the 2 of us in the car. (the other time was me, him and another colleague.)

On the way, he started to talk about masturbation which i was kinda feeling uneasy at the start cos its like the first time in my 19yrs that i am discussing this topic with someone else, but then i thought this was normal among guys so i just talk about it with him. He then asked me more questions like "Why do i not have a girlfriend till now?" and stuff like that. I thought this was normal too and so we spent the entire journey talking abt masturbation.

And then when i was about to reach home, he say he's going home for a quick session and i was like "ok go ahead" and then before he stop his car to drop me off, he said "It should be fun to do it with others". I didn't know what to reply so i just laughed and got off.

So is he trying to hint me something? Or is this kinda talk and questions very common among older guys?

Just curious...=)

Answer 1

Without a doubt he was hitting on you. He is either bi or g*y and thinks you are very cute, you should be flattered. but if you are not bi or g*y, then just keep brushing it off like you did and he will get the idea and should not bring it up again.

Answer 2

Just jerk the old b*****d off.  It would really make his day.

Answer 3

This is just an 18yrs old perspective but uh....sounds like he was hitting on you.  classic move actually.  First get you to just m********e with him then convince you to do other things.  Well good thing you didn't fall for it lol.  It would've just led to conflicting thoughts for you.  I hope no one finds this obscene.  

Answer 4

i would think he's desperate. probably likes u...

Answer 5

Apparently you enjoyed it...as your Freudian slip of "got off" popped out...lol...  If he's single and you would enjoy it, why not...he's obviously thinking about doing it with you...