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Am I responsible for killing his spontaneity?

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My boyfriend used to be late all time and it really got on my nerves. I used to really get on his case about it. Then one day about a year ago, he just stopped from one day to the next and started showing up 15 minutes early for everything. The other day at dinner with 2 couples from our home town we hadn't seen in ages, I commented on how he's anything but spontaneous and everyone was shocked saying that was weird, because he was always the guy showing up at the last minute or after the last minute with whatever surprise or gifts, flowers, funny story or whatever to liven up a situation. When I thought about it, I realised they were right. Could I be responsible for this change?

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  1. Mostly.


  2. highly likely, very. But other things around his life could've changed too.

    Sounds like someone got very controlling. No offense

  3. maybe you pissed him off lol

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