Am I right or wrong?

Question

Right, I have these friends (2 girls) and I walk to school with one of them. However when they are together they kinda act a little weird and flirty with boys. I don't really feel comfortable with them as we have different personalities and I'm not as much of an exhibitionist as them. They are also quite indecisive and are almost always late when we agree to meet up.

As its the summer holidays now they asked if I wanted to go cinema with them, I said yes at first but then they kept changing the plans and I decided not to go.

They asked a second time if I wanted to go swimming but I didn't want to go as I haven't felt well lately at didn't think swimming would help. i didn't meet with them afterwards either as I knew that I would have to end up waiting around on my own when I went to meet them.

I got another (group) text from one of them to go over the forest with a few others again I decided not to go as I don't feel that comfortable with that group and the forest isn't really my idea of fun.

I am friends with these people but them being late and undecisive all the time kinda puts me off going out with them. Am I being wrong or should I just do stuff I enjoy rather than following others?

Answer 1

i think you are doing the right thing.. if you start hanging around them too much you might end up the same way as they are.. yes be friends with them but you dont have to do what they want.. you seem like someone that has her head screwed on right .. keep going the way you are going your doing great

if they ever ask you why you wont do what they do then tell them how it is...  

i think if they can never make plans and keep it.. do they have other motives or do they really like u as a friend...

find some new friends or other activities that you can do with others..

if their idea of fun isnt your idea of fun and you dont feel comfortable about their ways

MOVE ON  girl  all the best

Answer 2

its normal that you want to go out with your friends, just your friends being so unreliable has put you off, i understand this because if you went out with them the chances are something would happen because they are always changing there mind. Also if there are some people the group that you don't know or aren't friends with they i wouldn't go out with them.

your being completely right. it sounds like you want friends that are trust worthy and wont always change things, i think this good. the friends you have now seem different to what you actually want. the thing to do is stay in touch with them but also maybe try and make new friends.

sometimes we have friends that are really great but to go out with them to places they turn out not so good i think this is whats happening here.

(if i have got the wrong end of things here i really i'am sorry)

(something like this happened to me so i kept my old friends but made new more reliable friends)

Good Luck  

Answer 3

Well, to be honest I know how you feel.  Sometimes you just need a break from the same people all the time, but that doesn't necessarily mean you should cut them off for good.  First off try telling them how you feel about them, and maybe try inviting them to do some activities you enjoy.

Answer 4

You're both right!

You want to do something with your friends which is totally normal, and your two friends have people they hang out with other than you which is also normal.

Talk to your friends and ask them if you guys are cool. They're flirting with guys because they probably like the guys that they are flirting with. Just because your two friends have other friends that you don't like doesn't mean that you're right or wrong for something that's completely out of your hands!

Do the stuff you like to, and maybe reconnect with the reason you three became friends in the first place.