Am I right to be angry?

Question

Camping with friends last night, supposed to be for the whole weekend, however I came home this morning. I went to bed a little before my tent buddy, who is a very good friend of mine and has a boyfriend. I then woke up to my friend and one of the guys having full on s*x right next to me in our little two man tent. None of us had been drinking that night. I freaked out completely and they thought it was funny. I felt completely uncomfortable and got out of there basically and came home. My friend is cross that I just left her, have I completely over-reacted or am I right to feel pissed off about the situation?

Answer 1

Yeah they should have more respect for you than that.

I think you should talk to your friend about it though and clear the air.

Answer 2

well, it was kinda weird that they were doing it right next to u, and if she already had a bf and had s*x with some guy, then yea u have a right to be pissed

Answer 3

its your decision  

Answer 4

You are absolutely right to be p****d off. I would have freaked out worse than you did.  

Answer 5

Your friend obviously has no sense of respect for either you or herself. She no doubt got a certain excitement by having intercourse in a semi-public way, this is dalled exhibitionism. But there are certain rules that accompany this type of behavior, the most important of which is that one does not involve anyone who doesn't want to watch! By invovling you, she showed a total disregard to your feelings. Her actions at best were rude, at worst illegal.

You felt uncomfortable (as most people in that situation would) and that should be the important thing to her. She should have respected your feelings. By leaving the scene you did exactly what you needed to do in order to protect your own sensibilities. She should be apologizing to you not being cross. Yes, you have every right to be upset and she can just p**s off. Not a very good friend, is she?

Answer 6

h**l yeah you're right to be angry, I would've gone mental and whooped some ***!  

Answer 7

Maybe they just didn't understand you, try to talk to them that you don't like certain things so that they'll understand you the next time.

Answer 8

You are right to be angry.

Her inviting another guy in a tent in which you both share is completely

disrespectful. You are certainly not over-reacting she owes you an apology. That's like a house guest coming to stay over the night and then doing you know what.

Try and talk to her about it and tell her that you felt very uncomfortable and would like an apology and if that doesn't work do something to make her realise that that was very mean thing to do (go to her house and just take all her food and lay down on the bed and invite a bunch of girls/boys she doesn't know). That's only a suggestion though.

Good Luck!

Hope This Helps! :D

Answer 9

Dont worry! You are totally right to be annoyed with them. Just because you wne tot sleep a little before them doesnt give them the right to have s*x in your tiny little tent. To be honest, unless youre great friends with him, I think its a bit wrong for her to have invited her boyfriend anyway. Just explain to her why youre annoyed and a bit pissed off. But I think that your right to be annoyed. :/