Am I so damaged from being messed with, abandoned by my parents and being bitter that I will always be a jerk?

Question

Edna, that is the sweetest comment I've heard in a long time. Thanks

Answer 1

ask yourself this "am i a good person", then take that and be who you wanna be, if you like being a jerk, then your answer is yes, but if not, then all you have to do is channel that neg. energy into something positive, do something nice for someone, see how it feels, make a habit out of it, and build with it, eventually you will realize that the jerk is long gone, and i wish you luck,  

                                                  sincerely, ex-jerk

Answer 2

no y live a bitter life if your unhappy find fo something that makes u happy not like u have anythingbetter to do u'll meet someone totally opposit from u anyhow someday that will cure u ^^ someone always cheerful u wonder y they arne't upset that will heal u dont wory ^^ your human just make sure u deal with it for now ...wow some ppl r mean dont listen to them they r the jerks reallie ^^ good luck to u

Answer 3

The fact that you are asking for advice shows you want to be better. m If you have the will, it will happen.  You were unfortunately born to jerk parents.  That is no reflection on you.  Mt mother was abandoned by her mother, but my mom didn't turn out the same as her mom.  My mom was the most attentive and loving person you could ask for.  You are NOT destined to repeat the past.  If you feel you are messed up (again not your fault) seek counseling.  You sound like a person capable of overcoming the bad beginning in your life.  Love and laughter to you. :)

Answer 4

It depends.  Do you want to use that as an excuse for surly behavior or do you want to use it as a stepping stone to understanding other's feelings through your own?  I wish I could find who said it but the quote is still true: "Holding on to anger is like taking poison and expecting it to kill your enemies."

Answer 5

probably...

Answer 6

perfectly NO! try to find your self....love your self and you'll find who you are!

Answer 7

being messed..abandoned by parents and being bitter is not an excuses that you will be a  jerk or you will always be a jerk..we made our destiny... if you choose to be jerk in all your life you will be jerk!...so if you choose not to be jerk and you will be not..trust your self you can change...make this experience as your challenge in life...believe.....and ...trust me....you are not a jerk!(",)

Answer 8

You can break the cycle of verbal abuse.Move on as you are a creation  of God, a child of beauty.  You deserve every happiness. Love yourself, see in yourself your good points,and you can become the person you want to be.Words have great power, and can scar us.But we all have the power to break away and become the person we want to be,it is very possible,Forgive those things done against you and move on to a positive future you deserve.We are all a unique individual with a design and purpose no one else has in exactly the same way.Good luck,you CAN DO IT !!!