Am I still a virgin? Can I get pregnant while still being virgin?

Question

I have been trying to lose my virginity with my boyfriend who is also a virgin too. I am 21. We have been having problems with the penetration, his p***s does not maintain erect for a long time with the condom and it doesn't stay put, and me, that it hurts too much and we still don't know if my hymen is completely broken. When we tried having penetrative s*x is with a condom and the condoms haven't broken, and he hasn't been able to ejaculate inside me because of those problems that I mentioned. But I worry too much about any possibility of getting pregnant like he introducing his fingers inside me, after touching himself, I told him to wash his hands, but it still gets me nervous, when he did that he did not ejaculated but he had pre-*** on the tip of his p***s, it was transparent not white, also when I was on top of him and we were just rubbing against each other without penetration.

I am thinking of discontinuing not having s*x because we aren't financially prepared to have a child, but I am so self-councious about anything. He says that I exaggerate too much, because I am always checking if the condom got broken. I am started my period today so is too early to tell.

Thanks.

Answer 1

Just because its clear doesn't mean anything because sperm are microscopic. If you aren't prepared to have a child then "don't do the crime unless you are willing to do the time" NOTHING is 100% foolproof except abstinence.

Answer 2

i think your still a virgin.  

Answer 3

Once that p***s enters the v****a one time that is it you aren't a virgin anymore.  Most girls have they hymen break long before the first time they have s*x because many things can cause it to break.  

Answer 4

Why not find a better form of birth control such as the pill? Plus you are no longer a virgin because he has penetrated you with his p***s and you may not have a hymen any more especially if you have used tampons or been involved in sports.  

Answer 5

Your'e not exagerating! I've been in your shoes and am still a virgin. You can get pregnant with pre-*** or with the lubricating fluids of the p***s during intercourse. I know it is ridiculous but it's possible. I'ts ok to check on the condom, after all it is not your boyfriend the one who gets pregnant! He has to understand. If you have doubts, make a pregnancy test 14 days after intercourse and repeat it 5 days later.

If he wants to rub his p***s around the v****a he ALWAYS must be covered with a condom! Please make sure of that and insist him to wash his hands after rubbing himself.

Answer 6

its possible to get pregnant and still be a virgin but its really REALLY rare, it sounds to me like your just really paranoid about getting pregnant, which is understandable, maybe if i would've been more like u i wouldn't be where i am right now. as for condoms breaking it really doesnt happen that often, so you shouldnt worry too much about that, condoms are actually pretty durable, maybe what you should try is to plan an evening where you try to relax, try not to worry about things going wrong and let things go where they go. and it does hurt the first time, but only for like a minute or two then it kinda goes away. hope things go well for you guys, good luck!

Answer 7

Karli B ...... once s***n hits the air it dies??? where did u get that from? I think your thinking of A.I.D.S ....

Anywho to answer your not-so-stupid question....... yes I would consider you still a virgin however I dont think you are pregnant or can get pregnant from your actions right now.... as long as you wear a condom and take care of yourself you should be ok..... have you tried other forms of birth control?

Answer 8

Your hymen can break even with the use of a tampon. You can get pregnant from pre-***. Sometimes the sperm can get into the pre-***. While the chances are lower it is still a posibility. If you are having your periods, as normal then you are not pregnant. Some women will bleed through their pregnancy but chances are slim. Sperm can live in the v****a for up to 5 days. If he has ejaculated(without a condom or with a broken one) in you you are able to get pregnant if ejaculation occurs around the time of ovulation.