Am I still a virgin ?

Question

This is a bit embarrassing, but I guess I'm afraid.

Yesterday I was experimenting like all people do, but I thought I would save my self till marriage. I feel a bit guilty, and I'm afraid that when I get married or something or when I want to give my self to that special guy, my hymen will be ripped or something. I feel so guilty and ashamed...

How do I know if my hymen is still intact?

Thanks for then answers...

Answer 1

How clued up do you think most men are?  Franky if your partner were to know what the hymen of a virgin was to look like it could almost be something to worry about.

Answer 2

some will advise you to examine the hymen by your self or by some friend but I strongly advise you not to.

U should not worry in normal but if you are then go to OB/Gyn specialist to examine you and confirm that the hymen is intact.

Answer 3

Seriously get rid of those guilty feelings... because until you have actual s*x where the p***s is inserted in to the v****a you are a virgin by most standards. Doesn't matter if your hymen is a little torn or completely gone and I really doubt you future husband will even notice if you are a virgin or not... he'll be more preoccupied with other stuff if you get my hint.

Answer 4

LAWL.

You're not a virgin til a p***s goes in your ******** hun.

You can stuff a baseball bat up there and be a virgin.

Answer 5

Your hymen has nothing to do with it. Girls' hymens are broken before they lose their virginity. Tampons don't affect your virginty, yet using tampons can sometimes break your hymen. So, you are still a virgin as long as you havn't had s*x with someone hunny. :)

Answer 6

Your hymen has nothing to do with being a virgin. Some women are born without one, and it can rupture from all kinds of non-sexual activities. You can get out a mirror to see if you still have an intact hymen... but you can be a virgin without one.

You are a virgin until you had penetrative s*x. That is it.

Answer 7

Hi.  Your virginity has nothing to do with your hymen being broken or not.  When you lose your virginity ( if you hymen is not broken), it tears from the P*nis going it your VaJJ.  Your hymen could be broken from sports, stretching, falling, tampons or something like that.  If you already broke it thats fine, your a virgin, all that will happen is s*x may be easier the first few times ( since nothing is in the way now).  Your a virgin till a pen*s goes up you. There's no reason to feel guilty!  Have a great day, I hope I helped you.