I was supposed to be getting married on Saturday, but my fiance sent me an email to call off the wedding. I emailed him back and got no response. Then, three days later he emails me to say his Mom wants the jewelry back that she had given me at our engagement party because it was very expensive.
I was really hurt and don't think I should have to give it back because -
1) It was new, NOT a priceless, family heirloom (if it had been passed down through his family, I'd give it back no questions asked)
2) It was a gift!
3) My parents were paying for the entire wedding ($10,000+), MIL hasn't offered a dime during the entire planning, but made a ton of demands.
4) My fiance's parents are Ghanian, so my parents paid over $200 to have a Ghanian caterer cook West African food for the engagement party.
5) I took the necklace she gave me to get it appraised today and the jeweler said it was cheap, not real gold and barely worth $40.00
6) Even if I were to send it back, I can't find the matching bracelet and earrings, only the necklace. So I think if I just send the necklace, she'll still be angry.
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