Am I the last 17 year old around that hasn't been kissed yet?

Question

see my problem isn't the fact that i'm dumb or unattractive but the fact that i'm not S****y. This seems to be a turn off to guys, and they never want to be more then friends. Don't laugh here guys, but i haven't even had a bf. Any hints/tips/suggestions/or words of comfort are highly appreciated!

Answer 1

im the exact same way with everyone else im shy and quite but with my friends im nuttyer than peanut butter lol anyway im 18 and havnt been kissed you time will come you dont need to change or act S****y the right guy will come along  

Answer 2

well I can tell you as a mom of 4  teens, I was also cute and popular and a cheerleader from 7th grade through college, that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I had my first real boyfriend my senior year. I had gone to dances, movies  and stuff with guysand friends in more of a group situation when in junior high and high school but they were always "the guys" the ones we were always with hanging around and more like friends. I was so glad I wanted for that real boyfriend to come around it meant more when that first kiss happened cause I was old enough to appreciate it and it was done out of love not just to do it. all the girls around me had had 4 or more boyfriends said I love you to all of them whether it was a 2 weeks or 2 months relationship. making out in halls at school and having random s*x. My senior year I dated a great guy and he was really all I was looking for everything was perfect homecoming  friday night days, studying together and prom. I married him the saturday after we both graduated from college. you are not strange wierd too shy etc. he will come along when he is suppose to and it will be great.

in this day and age it is commendable that you are not S****y as you said so many teens out there giving the bodies up for random s*x now a days and teen pregancies. it is scary with all the diseases out there. be safe and patient. like they say good things come to those who wait.

Answer 3

no you're not, i was 19. i look at it as you taking your time waiting for the right one, instead of trying to be like the crew.  

Answer 4

I was laid by the time I was thirteen.....don't get in a hurry

Answer 5

You must be putting out bad vibes. Smile more and open your posture.

Answer 6

Don't worry. I did not have my first kiss till I was like 19.  I was always shy with boys and never had a boyfriend till then.

When the time is right you will know and just go for it don't worry or think to much about it.  

Answer 7

Well you aren't the only person that feels that way!!!! I'm 17 to and I have never had a boyfriend of been kissed!!!! Just try to be yourself when you are around guys!!  

Answer 8

no no no hunny.... good for you!! if those guys dont want anything but a ****, then throw em out! a guy someday will realize that they hate s***s and that you are a complete virgin in everyway and the will make a line begging for you!! whoo! you go girl!

Answer 9

I was 18 when I had my first kiss, and I was a freshman in college when I had my first boyfriend.  Don't worry you have all the time in the world to be kissed.. Let your first kiss actually mean something rather then being S****y or being peer pressured into something.  

Answer 10

Woo-hoo! I'm 16 and haven't even had a boyfriend yet. Thought I was the only one. Thx much!

Answer 11

your fine! Just know that thngs come when you least expect or stop thinking about them. Just be confident and hold your head up high and you'll be ok:]. [btw first kisses arent always the best :DD. it was the 2nd for me:]

Answer 12

No.

<17 and never been kissed.

Answer 13

oh don't wory i got my first kiss 6 months ago i'm 18

Answer 14

You aren't the last one I promise.  I have a friend who is 22...and it wasn't until recently she TALKED to a guy.  Yes, just talked.  You aren't behind yet :)  I think you are being very smart about things!

Answer 15

I am about to turn 17 and I have a boyfriend. I've never been kissed, we've been together for a while now. I love him with my whole heart.

Be happy that atleast you won't probably regret your first kiss like all the little 13 year olds do!