Am I the only one who fights with their mom constantly?

Question

okay so I'm just wondering if it's only me but me and my mom fight ALL THE TIME. I mean, I'm always trying to please her and when I try to do something good she ends up yelling at me. It's like I can't win. She gets mad so easily I'm almost afraid of her. She never hits me but she yells sooo much and makes me feel so bad about myself. ugh. I'm a 15 year old girl btw. Is it okay that we're having this much trouble? I feel awful all the time for making her upset :(

any advice would be appreciated. thanks guys

Answer 1

im 21 now with a 1 yo daughter, and i dread the day that she and i get along like my mom and i did. we fought all the time, about boys, school, curfew, smoking, alcohol, drugs, etc... i couldnt wait to move, everytime i cleaned, it wasnt good enough for her, however, now that im an adult, i worry so much, so i know how she felt if i was late getting home and her mind got wandering. i appreciate all she did for me because now i am responsible, always on time with a good work ethic, not a s**t or a druggie, and im also a good mom, so i know kayla and i will fight if we dont agree. you 2 are fine, and soon enough you will have not only a good relationship, but a friendship as well. we all hate our moms at some point, and its ok.

Answer 2

i have the exact same thing. what i did was i talked to my mom. i told her how i felt and she told me. and its totally normal and okay.

Answer 3

haha. you think you're the only one.... but if it's like excessive yelling and she's actually, well, insulting or being mean to you? that's a different story.