Am I the only one who thinks and acts differently?

Question

I really love drawing, but I really think I should be studying. I draw everyday so then even in the test weeks I would've drawn few pages filled with drawings. Also sometimes I think I would act mad at my friend just to let her know I don't like being treated how she is treating me but when I come to her I just don't do it. Constantly these kind of things happen. My brother though, says he's going to play then he plays, says he's going to read everyday before sleep and then does read before sleep everyday. Am I the only one who does this or is this normaL?

Answer 1

Your response is normal as long as you understand that, in some cases, you don't have the option to go against your intuition or your rational perceptions.  Sometimes, we must act decisively and immediately.

However, being a little wishy washy is a good thing in many situations.  We learn from experience and thinking through problems and relationships.  There is no need to be decisive if no clear response is perceived as the best response.

And, we should know that we will make mistakes, many of them.