Am I too young to love?

Question

I am going to ask people about their thoughts about my topic. I don't want insults so be nice. I am 19 year old college (female) student and I am in love with my boyfriend. I know I am too young and naive, but I know how love feels. I have gone through struggles and as a result matured much faster then people my age. I am focus on my studies so don't worry about me not thinking about my future.

My parents (divorced) tell me that I am too young, naive, etc, to love and tell me that it's not real love. My bf and I are actually committed and emotionally attached. There is love in our relationship and I can't imagine loving somebody else because he feels like the right one. We want to wait until we are in our careers before we marry each other. But I am afraid what my parent's tell me, which is the relationship won't last because we meet each other too young.

Is the young factor really going to play a role?

Answer 1

you know some people think that love will fade gradually when 2 partners are together for too long and love will gradually change more to love for a family member rather than for a lover when the 2 are too too close with each other. I'm not sure if you get my drift but i hope you try to understand my viewpoint.

I have a friend who had a 5 year relationship with a guy, but the 2 of them broke up eventually because at the end of the 5 years, they realized they had no more feelings for each other. The breakup was mutual.

I wouldn't say your too young to love, but just make sure your love foundation for each other is strong. As long as you believe in your love for him and his love for you, then it doesn't matter what others say right? If the foundation is strong, it will not be swayed easily by other people's comments. think about it. ((:

Answer 2

I was 19 when I meet my current husband and we have had issues but we are o.k.Age can be a factor but than again some 40 year and still haven't got it right.I would keep dating for a while at leas till you are though with school and just see how it goes

Answer 3

Well, I'm 19 too and I wonder if I've ever really been in love... I suppose it depends on the person. You're a young adult woman so I think you're capable of feeling real love by now.  

Answer 4

no you are 19 not too young  just dont mess up and get pregnant that sucks

Answer 5

id say no.

personally people who meet younger have a better story to tell when theyre older. makes it sound like a love fairy tale kind of romantic if you know what i mean. So if you love him keep him because there arent many good guys left. you want him keep him. you two seem like you have everything under control. dont let your parents get in the way of what you want. your an adult now you get to choose who and how you love someone.

good luck

XOxo

Kitty