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Am I trippin out,or do I have a reason to worry?

by Guest59693  |  earlier

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I just had a baby 3 1/2 months ago,my bf was great all through pregnancy and for about the first two months after baby.Then one night after I let him barrow my tahoe I found a number of a girl on a paper in my car.When I asked him about it he had said it was his friends and he was showing it off to him and it must have fallen.From then on I have been so insecure,and I started questioning everything he says he does. He started wanting to go out more during the days then on friday nights and then saturdays too.He wouldnt come home sometimes.I also noticed he started deleting all his texts and calls on his cell.Of course it made me more curious, so next time he jumped in the shower, I looked at his call log and wrote down a few numbers he had been texting and calling. at like 3 in the morning. I noticed the same number of the girl on the paper I found 1 1/2 mnths before so I called and talked to her she said OMG i didnt know he had a girlfriend, then I told her he had a son and she freaked out.I asked her if she knew his friend who he said left the number in the car and she didnt.I was in shock and there was more numbers where girls answered. I know it was wrong to check his calls but something told me to do it. Do you think I am over reacting, we fight all the time and he never is here cause all I do is argue cause I cant get it out of my head. What do I do and would u be trippin?

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  1. Guys start feeling trapped after a baby like OMG life is over  and I have to cheat and get out. Like - in the back of their minds they think ok if I get caught she will leave and I'm off the hook. You need to either kick him out and change the locks or when he is gone pack up and leave and learn your lesson--marriage comes before baby-- you get to know them before an innocent baby has to  be involved with the mess you 2 have made.He is a lier and a cheat untrustworthy and decietful. Is that what you want in your life? always knowing and just staying with that garbage? you can do fine on your own untill you find a nice guy.


  2. leave him

  3. leave

  4. That guy is totally cheating on you and you need to dump him immediately.  Especially if he is too much of a p***y to admit it to you.  What a freaking jerk.

  5. I know that if i had a wife/gf i would never cheat.

    Some people just don't appreciate what they have.

  6. Uhh i wouldn't just be trippin id be pack-in! Id kick his butt to the curb ASAP and be sure to tell him you'll see him in court for child support! What a a$$hole!

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