Am I weird or just out of place?

Question

I mean I'm very different from most normal people around me.

For example, I love gifts and presents but I don't mind, sometimes don't even care, if someone forgets my birthday. I thought, "So what? it's not like I'm going to die because i don't have a birthday party!"

Like about my styles. I don't care if others think I look geeky, a nerd, or a loser when I don't wear expensive outfit and carry a $200 handbag. I just want to feel comfortable, neat, and compatible for each environment, occasions. My mom said what I think is not normal, that we wear clothes for others to look at too. She thinks I need to be hip and flashy, wearing high-heel, etc.

I mean what the c**p. Wearing high-heel hurt so bad. She complains that my feet are so big so a girl (I'm size 7 and 5'5").

I don't wan to have to wear those heels, stop every 10 steps to rub my feet of the burning pain before continue walking. Spending like $30 for a tank top and $80 for a pair of jeans? No way! I think it's throwing $$$ out of the window.

I don't like gossiping! I mean literally a magazine features a whole 2 paged article about an actress lost her puddle, claimed she found it 2 weeks later, but the shallow reporter thinks that's not the original one. I mean who the h**l care about that. Am I being critical or that is a really shallow, unsophisticated info?

Another thing about me is that I'm really introvertive girl.I don't like to talk or want to have many friends. I think I had like 2, 3 normal friends in my 4 years of high school. Duing lunch I just want to seat by myself eating lunch while reading somethings. My house and my room are the only place I want to stay in for weekends/ holidays.

I don't care about popularityor to fit in. Who would need someone to decide that you have to be this and do that to be part of a group?

Why do we all assume that people will feel bad if they don't fit in or make lots of friends or if others think they're "losers"? I don't feel that way! In fact, I take it as a big compliment if someone tell me, "You're a nerd," instead of, "You look cute today." (but I like both!!!)

So, am I normal or I just have alien mind?

Answer 1

You are normal you have no physiological issues, you don't see things that aren't there you don't eat other human beings you don't enjoy stabbing humans right? So yea you are completely normal but luckier then other teenagers because you are happy with yourself and how you look and you don't want to change i respect you for that not everyone like that, and your mother only wants you to have a bf and to look like other girls because she thinks those things are in fashion, you are just the way and you are unique that way maybe your stereotype might be even be tomb boy, anyways ROCK ON THEIR SOCKS!

Answer 2

You're just an individual. You're you, and nothing should make you ask a question like this (:

I agree with you a hundred percent on the 200 dollar purses and 80 dollar clothes thing. xPP I get my clothes at Wal-Mart and Target =D

But. yes, you are an individual. Not weird.

And hopefully not an alien.

Answer 3

1) There is no such thing as "normal"

If there is then it's probably bland and dull.

I'm pretty sure not wanting to spend $80 on a pair of jeans is something called common sense. A very special thing that most people tend to lack. I call me and my friend the "losers" but in a good way. It's what seperates us from the stupid people.

2)Dorks are cool. The End.  

Answer 4

No you don't have an alien mind.  There is nothing wrong with being you.  If you can dress for different occasions that's great.  I think your a jewel because girls that are high maintenance will never have anything unless they have a great job.  I use to spend hours playing and doing things by myself because it would seem that people would get in the way and get on my nerves.  I love people but some time, it's just my time.

Answer 5

You're not normal. The definition of normal is this: approximately average in any psychological trait, as intelligence, personality, or emotional adjustment.

You're not normal because you have a good head on your shoulders and listen to what -you- think is right, rather than what -other- people think is right. Congratulations!