Am I wrong? Or just old fashioned?

Question

My best friend, Gary (male) is g*y, and 18. He's madly, crazy in love with this other guy (he's g*y too), and he's 35. 17 years age difference.

Don't get me wrong, it's not them being g*y that makes me not like this. Gary hasn't acted on this yet because I told him not too...I think the huge age difference is just wrong this early in his life. Later, sure...but not now.

I think the only reason why he's head-over-hills for this guy is because he's the first guy to ever be interested in him, however I don't think that is so true. The guy has done the same "flirting" with me that he has with Gary, but Gary says that doesn't count because I'm a girl.

Personaly, I think that this guy is just really friendly and doesn't like my friend Gary at all in that way.

And even if it would happen, I would still object, because of the age thing.

Oh, and did I mention that the guy is completely deaf? Gary (and I) know sign language pretty well, but sometimes we still don't know what he's saying.

So am I wrong?

Answer 1

your wrong.........   do yo know how hard it is to find a good g*y guy....   let  Gary go for it........

BTW, you should consider older guys yourself... i am available to love you like Gary loves the other guy..

Answer 2

The 35 year old is a dirty old man - 18 is not old enough to be ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN for the rest of your life that you are g*y.  The dirty old man may inappropriatel influence the 18 year old for many years to come - he may find out too late he is hetro or bi

Answer 3

no i think u are right