Am I wrong....picking friends over bf/gf?

Question

My boyfriend kind of chose his friends over me about something I have a problem with...and he didn't really want to change it except bring me with them but I didn't want to. Am I wrong for wanting to break up over this? I'm not making him pick his friends or saying he has to cut them off or anything, but I would have wanted a bf who chooses me over anything because I am important to him the same way I would choose him over anything else.

Answer 1

That's definitely NOT something to break up over. And honestly, that's not really how relationships should work. You can't just expect him to ditch out on his friends for you just like you wouldn't expect him to ditch on you for his friends. He's got obligations with them too, not just you. You're PART of his life, not his entire life. Maybe when things change, time goes on, and you grow closer, he'll change more towards that. But for now, he's young and wants to be with his friends sometimes. Maybe he felt like he hadn't spent a lot of time with them lately and wanted to do something. That's cool that he invited you along. If he had made set plans with you and then changed them at the last minute to chill with his buddies, then he's wrong for that. You should just go hang out with him and his friends. It'll be good for you and him.  

Answer 2

i don't think its wrong, but that's just me.

i would do the same thing, only if this kept happening.

has he done this before or was it a first time thing?

Answer 3

If he chooses his friends over you now then he won't stick up for you in the future