Am I wrong to start dating the friend of a guy I was once pursuing?

Question

I met this guy about 3 months ago---possibly longer. We starting contacting each other through facebook after seeing each other at a get-together prior to that. Well---besides random facebook messages, and him inviting me to a few clubs/events he was at---we had not had any one-on-one dates. I initially, just thought he was cool. We exchanged #'s and have had maybe 2 convos in the three months we met. Well---about 3 weeks ago---he invited me to his friends house party. Me and the guy whose house it was immediately hit it off. I could tell he was feeling me. Well also, that night (the guy who invited me) and I shared a drunken kiss but since then, we STILL have not gone out on a date or discussed getting to know each other. Well---me and the guy I met from the party have been IMing for about a week, and last night we met up to hang out. (he was with the guy I knew from three months ago and another guy) I was with my female friend. It was awkward because neither us could fight the chemistry and were inseperable the whole evening. Am I wrong to start dating this guy, though him and the other guy know each other? Also---the guy I truly like now and the guy from 3 months back also had JUST met in the last month, so their not really friends. They just hang out all together with another mutal friend...

*Me and the new guy also have a date tonight*

Answer 1

Is the original guy really into you? If he hasnt made a move it doesnt mean he doesnt like you.. but you seem to have decided its his friend you really like. He wont like it but you have already met the new guy out with the original guy so he will see what is coming.

So give it a whirl

Answer 2

it sounds like the newer guy got more game. Its not his fault the original guy move too slow. there is nothing wrong with that. good luck

Answer 3

No I don't think in this case you're wrong. It doesn't seem the first guy and you were that into each other, and I take it you didn't have s*x with him or anything. It sounds like you are already seeing this other guy and are happy with each other, and as they are not really close friends I can't see anyone having a problem with this situation! Just enjoy yourself :) xx

Answer 4

give it a shot. good luck.

Answer 5

go for him

u dnt own anything 2 the other guy

so why the ******* h**l u have guilties?

huh?

dude go 4 it

good luck

Answer 6

as long as  you  are  all  single  its  fair  game  but  avoid  friends  of  ex lovers  in  general  if  you  can  because it  will  only  make  you  look  bad. you  will  be  perceived  by  both  men  as  a  sl*t if  you  have  s*x with  both  of  them  there  are  so  many  men.  that is  just  asking  for  trouble

this  other  guy  was  not  into  you  enuf  to  ask  you  out  so  forget  about  it

Answer 7

I say Go For It!!! It's not like they're best buds, friends or anything. & besides it was a drunk kiss.  For all you know He might have not even remembered?

Answer 8

i did it ! couldnt have worked out better!

it's not wrong. you cant help who your heart wants!