Am a married man and happy life with my since 2000. Three months ago i received a call on my cell phone?

Question

A college girl ask for someone and i replied that this is a wrong number. After an hour she send me a funny sms and i replied with the same by sending funny sms to her. After one week we start calling each other. I told him that i am married man and my age is 40 years and friendship with me is not suitable for you but she says we are only friends. since than we talk to each other so many time and send and receive sms too. She says to me that I love you so much as a friend. I feel guilty by involving a young girl. What can i do to stop this in the way she dont hurt. (my english is not good so please dont mind)

Answer 1

Do not return her calls, she is either only a kid, or your wife could be testing you.

Answer 2

Stop now. Before the "sms" relationship turns to something else. You already have gone too far. You are married. These small chats and texts, as innocent as you may think they be, will only hurt your wife. If you love her. Don't proceed. I know from experience, it only gets worse. You may hurt the one you love, and in the end YOU are the one who loses. Take care.

Answer 3

  " Thou shall not commit adultery" Any religion beliefs that we should not cheat. Don't fall on this trap.  It may give you a lot of trouble in the future because you are a married man.Just try to do ways to forget her and stop communicating with this kind of woman. Be honest tell her you love your wife and you will not leave your wife for anyone.  You will see she will not send sms because its a sign of rejection already.

Answer 4

Please just ignore her. Don't answer anything, she will soon get the message. Tell your wife  because she could have put someone up to this and if  she did and you don't tell her and keep it a secret, she will be even more upset because you are "keeping this from her and looking so guilty" Cover your tracks and just put a stop to it.

Answer 5

Take her to the No Tell Motel and have your way with her.

Answer 6

She is confusing 'love' with perhaps 'gratitude' ~ for whatever you bring to her in her life.

You owe her nothing but maybe some Christian care!

Redirecting her to some service or organisation which with she can build something one may well help her out of whatever she is in that creates the need she has in yourself.

Her inability to form a relationships elsewhere is likely the problem she needs to deal with, and having a simple 'relationship' with you over the phone is not the answer.

Try redirecting her ~ after warning her that this type of relationship cannot continue.

Do not let yourself get sucked into something that will bring you down.

Good luck  .

Sash.

Answer 7

Be honest and tell her this friendship is not appropriate for a married man.  You can tell her she is a good person, but you will have to stop this friendship immediately.  I think you should probably apologize, if you think you've led her on in any way.

Allow her a response or two for closure, then ask her to stop contacting you.  Tell her you're sorry, but you will ignore any communications from her after that.  Then do exactly that.  It's important you don't response to her at all.  If she continues to contact you, totally ignore her.  She'll get bored and move on.

Next time, don't start something like this.  You know it's not appropriate for a married man.  What would you think if your wife had a male friend just like this girl?  You wouldn't like it, and your wife won't like this if she finds out.  You did the wrong thing by starting this whole deal. I hope you do the right thing and end it.

While you'll probably hurt this girl's feelings, I think your wife would be devastated that you were being so friendly towards another woman of any age.  

Answer 8

gently tell her you no longer can continue with talking to her....best give all your attention to your wife....nuff said!!!!!