Am apperaring for the hardest exam of my life in four months.... but jus feeling i have lost all interest?

Question

i tried last time but didn't get thru so this year i left off my job and sittin at home and preparing... but suddenly for past few weks am feelin all sapped up and no energy or motivation to study.... same topics again and again.. am at my wits end to motivate myself.... i had a fall out with my parents two months back about them wanting to get me married to some clown of their choice... now we barely talk........ and now stayin in a different place not to distact myself as this exams means a world to me..... but am loosing the hope i can do it... i have always been a good student... what to do.....

Answer 1

THINK ANYTIME POSIBLITY andDO NOT THINK IMPOSSIBLITY.

Answer 2

try going for a long run, it will help to clear your head, leave you feeling refreshed and ready for anything then just head back to your studies, I'm on exam leave now and have found this works every time. don't plan it just shove some trainers on and run round the town of some nearby fields until you feel ready.

Answer 3

Hello,

as you named yourself "eagle" this shows great hope for future flying and believe in your potential. Don't lose that!

   As this exam means so much to you, you are already emotionally aroused, adding the issue with your parents, both concern your near and far future.

   When such a situation evolves, we feel we are at danger, so we react by the "fight or flight" mechanism. This primary reaction means you got two choices: to fight the source of danger or to fly away from it. In your case, the latter could explain your drop of motivation for the exam, as a defence mechanism.

   I think it's up for rational thinking to take over for both issues: your exam by keeping on studying well regardless of your emotional state, as for your parents maybe try to find the proper way and time to discuss with them. This would better occur in a calm ambiance with rational thinking and sharing.(maybe ask them to discuss that later as the exam is more likely urgent.)

  As a summary: you need to relax and think rationally. (movies, physical exercise, meditation....)

  Finally whenever you feel the need you can seek professional help, a counsellor could be much of use in such situations. (saves time and emotional disturbance)

                  Good luck!

Answer 4

well just take it easy on your self first .. and take a day or 2 off from all work .. then get back to it .. now enjoy your life as .. you should

Answer 5

Never lost hope and don't give it's just a trial for you to be ready to face the next level of life in which more difficult than what you're expecting.Quitter never win. Success is 50% try and 50% failure. While failure is 50% never try 0% success and 100% failure.

Answer 6

it shows how hard u have studied...so give it ur best shot

Answer 7

u do some rest of mind...and try to out of stress, because u are taking more stress about your study and win....take few space, do other things like join yours friends...after few days u will be fresh...and can do study hard and i am sure u will win the target.