Am confuse but i wanna ask her out..? but am not sure about?

Question

What should i do here it is am sexually confused and i dont know what to do once i talked to a guy on the internet about it and just reminding myself all i been thru made me cry hardcore.. even tho it was weird crying on the computer

I always been interested in girls emotionally hardcore sometimes but when i c a hot guy i dont know what i feel like nervous and i think that i wanna look like him but at the same time i think am aroused am not really sure and on girls i c sometimes not always hot girls and gets my attention but when i look at her phisycally i just dont get horny for some reason i feel little like nervous i dont know its a weird feeling sometimes i get a ***** but it has to be p**n.. i have seen g*y p**n before like 2 months ago i saw since then i been watching straight p**n ...

I THINK i can get arouse by a girl that i like touching and stuff turns me on . but i am not aroused when i think about them, only in real life situations am i aroused like i said touching ..etc

I NEVER KISSED A GIRL NOR A GUY

i dont really desire to kiss a guy or have something with them..

but am so confuse

right now a girl that wants to go out with me came to my house,she asked me for help i told her to came and she did i helped her and i asked her out on a date and she said yes on friday .. i wanna ask her out on the movies what should i do if she wants to kiss me i dont know how my hormones will react

and i dont imagine myself with another dude only with a girl..

even tho i seen g*y p**n and i liked it =;//

any advice? or a suicide line T_T

o yeah am 17 between and shes 15 really cute girl love her smile and the way she is

also i like some girly songs i guess am still childish even tho i dont act like that somtimes

Answer 1

Obviously you are attracted to girls you are just a lil nervous....don't make it all about sexual thought but be happy with who can arouse your mind over all you are thinkin to much on sexual prefrence when you should think about who can bring joy to your life and the sexual stuff should come later.

Answer 2

I have talked to many people who were in a similar situation as you. By guys that arouse you, I am assuming that they are very attractive? What you are feeling possibly, is desire to look like them. And because you want to look like them, because of their appearance, it sparks a sense of attractiveness. I think maybe you aren't confidant with your looks, and with that, you're not sure if the girl you like will like you back. The nervousness that you have when those boys are near you, is probably due to the threat that they emit. That they might take away the girl that you might like.

Either that, or you simply are just sexually confused. To fix that, just experiment. Try out your relationship with that girl that you asked out, and if that doesn't go well, try a relationship with a guy. Just see which one you're more comfortable with. I'm sure many straight men have seen g*y p**n once in their lives.

And listening to girl songs doesn't really have to do anything with sexual orientation. You can have a g*y man listening to some crazy music like Norwegian Black Metal, or some straight man listening to Britney Spears. It's just a preference that gradually grows on you.

Answer 3

are you g*y? i dont hate you people but i refuse to give my straight answer to someone who is g*y.

Answer 4

I think you may be bisexual. Some of these feelings are actually normal when growing up. I once felt attracted to women when I was 13 and going through puberty. Just ask her out. You never know what's right for you until you get into relationships. Best of luck.