Am i FAT?!?! HELP ME!?

Question

My height: [ 60.63 inches ] OR [ 154 cm]

My weight: [ 110.231131 pounds] OR [ 50kg ]

i feel like such a elephant. i dont have a perfectly flat stomach but my stomach is not that ginormous at all! its just that my frends are so much taller than me. my two best frends are 175 cm and the other 168cm ! thats about 20cm taller than me! And btw we are all 14.

also my mums side of the family (i live with them, not my dads side) are as skinny as h**l. my aunt is 30 and i weight the same as her! and i weigh 3kg (6.6pounds) more than my mom which is soo scary :O!

i feel like a monster. help me?!!

AND im not rlly allowed very tight fitted clothes which makes the situation even worse. i also checked my bmi and im normal, but inside me i feel SO SHORT! and fat :'(

Answer 1

relax your only 14

you have a **** load of time

Answer 2

relax girl !!

you are not fat , you don't have to compare your self to other

your body is perfect

just eat healthy food and drink a lot of water

wish you luck !!

lulu :)

Answer 3

no way i will love to be that weight and if you are not happy with yourself then run or do crunches if you don't like your stomach

Answer 4

you too young to worry bout that

Answer 5

OK...Calm down, I'm 151cm. and I weigh 48kg. I am proud of myself. If you don't respect yourself, no one is going to before you do. That's perfect, keep staying healthy!

Answer 6

well youre definitely a little short... but you're not fat. if you play sports you might have more muscle, which is the case of my gf, she has massive (hot) legs (all muscle) cause she does track and soccer. plus she weighs more than me by like 6 pounds, but that's cause im like taller and most of my muscle is distributed on my upper body. just dont go comparing yourself to other people. obviously there's always someone taller, skinnier, prettier, blah blah blah than you but thats what makes you different. the sooner you accept that the sooner you'll feel better about yourself.

Answer 7

you're not fat, you just seem really down on yourself. get over it and don't let the media turn you into an anorexic basket-case.

Answer 8

not jsut saying this, but your the EXACT same height AND weight as me lol. well im happy with my weight, although im 19 and have D sized b***s lol so that could be where some weight is lol. your only young, you still got growing to do and your weight will adjust accordingly. but no, at the moment, your not fat. your healthy....

Answer 9

talk to a psychiatrist

Answer 10

just do some exercises daily and you will be fine. dont put urself down sooo much. your persian too??? cool! me too. salam..hamechi khoob mishe. =]  

Answer 11

your are not like elephant. you are like DEER. :D be happy all the time

Answer 12

you dont have to have a perfectly flat stomach to be skinny.

being perfectly flat is kinda gross.

im not perfectly flat either but im not fat.

Answer 13

i don't think that you sound fat at all. you could always try working out to build muscle and burn fat or start jogging, which would also help.

please don't go on a crash diet, though. they're horrible and won't work AT ALL plus you'll most likely just get really sick.

of course, with that being said, eating healthy and cutting bad fats out of your food will most likely help you lose weight but also make you feel better physically.

also, try not to compare yourself to other people. when you look at them you might feel bad, but the truth is that you are probably are way healthier than they are. try to find the good in yourself and you'll feel a lot better.

Answer 14

Considering the information you gave, you dont sound fat to me...but its normal for girls to be worried about their weight and appearance all the time, even when there's really nothing wrong with them at all. so i'm sure you're fine. :D

Answer 15

U r not fat. Everyone is built differently and so don't worry.  

Answer 16

your not actually fat. You're about the perfect weight for your height and you still will be for another 5 kgs. I'm the exact same height as you and was the same weight. I didn't realize how thin i was till i started putting on weight. but yeah I'm very sure you can see your hip bones quiet a lot and you'd be about a size 7 jeans. I was talking to one of my old mates and he thought I was actually too skinny back then he said any thinner i would be anorexic. Now i'm 19 and 65kg, I'm alot chubbier than i want to be but hey i can still look decent always pick up when i go out.

Its totally normal to not have a perfectly flat tummy especially being a girl, we have an extra bit of totally necessary fat there to protect our ovaries.

You can tone it up but doing sit-ups while watching and doing regular exercise. I liked to do it during the chorus of songs when i was blearing music in my room.

You don't need very tight fitting clothes to look nice. If you want to show off your tiny waist, you can use a belt. Like it all depends on what style of clothes you wear.

I've come to terms with my height, once i met this really tall guy and was like gees I'm really short aren't i and he said no you're just fun size and I'm king size



People don't really notice my height anymore.

But seriously you're just right, stop panicking. Tell your mum about how you fell, they're usually really good with that stuff and watch out you don't become obsessive about it cos it can be dangerous.

Answer 17

im the same age.. 5foot 2inches,

i weigh 108

and im DEFINTLY not fat.

so my guesse is your not either.

Answer 18

You still have to grow up, most teenagers usually pass through this stage due to hormonal rush but then it goes off and you shall be thinner. When I was 14 I used to weight 120 pounds and was 164 cm tall. Now I'm 1.70 and weight 116 pounds, becaming a marathonist also helped.

I advice you to do exercise and eat healthy, avoid sweeteners like Splenda because they make you crave even more.

Answer 19

your bmi is perfectly healthy, you sound perfect. you sort have answered your question already. if you feel big, do some toning exercises.

Answer 20

I feel fat too.Its just cause when you look down you see a balloon but if you look in the merrier you will think you look better.And no you are not fat.If you think you are diet for 4 months.You will feel better.I promise!!

Answer 21

yea u are a monster lose some weight

Answer 22

no, ur not fat sweety

please help meh?

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Answer 23

You sound skinny to me. Quit worrying about it. You are only 14 and still have time to grow taller.  

Answer 24

You are fine, honestly you're not fat. I don't think you're even chubby really. You should just let yourself be you without letting your weight bother you, it'll help in the long run. And our society expects the perfect body, personality and mind from everyone; don't let yourself think you're fat because you're not PERFECT.

Answer 25

NO. your not fat at all..thats how much i weighh! every girl has self confidence isseuss. so dont putt yourrselff downn likee thattt.

Answer 26

Youre only young. Dont worry about your weight because chances are when you grow up you'll probably fill out

Answer 27

No. It's not healthy to compare your weight to others. Be positive!

Answer 28

a girl i know is the same height as you and she is like 90 pounds or so. but everybodies system is different. you could be at the just right weight for yourself. and you are NOT a monster. dont worry, your only 14, you will grow some more.

Answer 29

You are obviously not fat.. You are just comparing yourself to everyone else too much. Everyone has different body types..

If the problem is beyond that, then maybe you could post this question in the mental health section.

Answer 30

do you have a picture?

youre not fat. hush