Am i a bad BESTFRIEND for even THINKING it?

Question

My bestfriend really likes this boy and it her ex. He called me the night before, and at first we would talk about her of course and then change the subject. I told him i felt wrong talking to him without talking about her. He said it wasnt a big deal. I tryed to get them back together but he says hes really over her. So we kept talking and i admitt i KINDA flirted with him. But i didnt mean too, i wouldnt to that to my bestfriend, and im talking to his bestfriend on top of that.

He had asked me if i wanted to sleep over his house, and i said yeah but i KNOW im not going to do anything, but i told him to keep it a secret and to NOT TELL ANYONE...he promised he wouldnt. So the next day he called me, and he asked if i was still going, i felt SO GUILTY i didnt want to do it...i felt WAY to bad but i still said yea. Then he called me back about an hour later and was like ima pick you up...I told him NO that we should just go to the game, and he got a little upset but he got over it.

So i ended up NOT going over even though i said i was and we were going to keep it a secret. Then he said he wanted to take me to the game, so when him and his cousin picked me up i thought we were going to the game from there, but i ended up going to his house for an hour so we can go the game. We didnt DO ANYTHING. Then we were at the game for an half hour alone, then people game.

AM I A BAD FRIEND?

WAS WHAT I DID WRONG??

WOULD YOU BE MAD????

Answer 1

yes i believe it was wrong because the rule is no doing anything with your bestfriends ex it is just not good. and it leaves  you feeling very guilty any way

Answer 2

you t*t i can't believe you done this to me :(

just joking ;)

no your not a bad best friend its not your fault you like him and you didn't do it on purpose

it was a bit but she'll get over it

a bit but theirs plenty of other boys out their  

Answer 3

Well you should wait till she is over him till you tell her. Try to get her to like other guys. Ask her ex if you guys can just be friends until she is completely over him. Don't worry you are not a bad friend, all friends have done that at least once. I have actually flirted with a my friend's boyfriend, while they were going out. I couldn't help but like him. I also felt bad. But you can't control the way you fell about someone. Don't feel so bad.

Answer 4

ur horrible you should go to the home depot at 6:00 in the morning and hire 10 mexicans to stone you. they work cheap. for a little over $5.50 hr youll learn your lessen.

Answer 5

in a way, you are, but not all the way!!

like first of all....

what you did wrong:

1) said and even thought about sleeping over his house, that's not       normal!!

2) you should have told your friend that you two have been talking

3) you should make it clear to him that you're not interested

and if you are... then talk to your friend!!

what you did right:

1) tried to get them back together

2) you were aware about your friend and him.

3) you didn't end up sleeping over

Answer 6

its pretty bad that you did that. but you should tell your best friend if you haven't already because then she will know that she can trust you to tell her everything. i would be mad at you if i was in your best friends situation but i would get over it because its just a guy and you told me what happened