Am i a bad bestfriend for even THINKING about it?

Question

My bestfriend really likes this boy and it her ex. He called me the night before, and at first we would talk about her of course and then change the subject. I told him i felt wrong talking to him without talking about her. He said it wasnt a big deal. I tryed to get them back together but he says hes really over her. So we kept talking and i admitt i KINDA flirted with him. But i didnt mean too, i wouldnt to that to my bestfriend, and im talking to his bestfriend on top of that.

He had asked me if i wanted to sleep over his house, and i said yeah but i KNOW im not going to do anything, but i told him to keep it a secret and to NOT TELL ANYONE...he promised he wouldnt. So the next day he called me, and he asked if i was still going, i felt SO GUILTY i didnt want to do it...i felt WAY to bad but i still said yea. Then he called me back about an hour later and was like ima pick you up...I told him NO that we should just go to the game, and he got a little upset but he got over it.

So i ended up NOT going over even though i said i was and we were going to keep it a secret. Then he said he wanted to take me to the game, so when him and his cousin picked me up i thought we were going to the game from there, but i ended up going to his house for an hour so we can go the game. We didnt DO ANYTHING. Then we were at the game for an half hour alone, then people game.

AM I A BAD FRIEND?

WAS WHAT I DID WRONG??

WOULD YOU BE MAD????

Answer 1

yea you are a bad friend bc you felt guilty and u know it was wrong and you still did it. and ur here askin US if u are a  bad friend a person that didnt think they was a bad friend wouldnt be askin our opinion, AND you told him to keep it a secret so that means u wanted to do it bt u didnt want noone to know bc U know its BAD and wrong and you shouldnt of done that. Plus why the h**l would u go to sleep over at your best friends ex house anyway?? that makes no sense and im sure ur not stupid, boys have ONE thing on their mind even when they say its all innocent, thats b.s you know that he was gonna try n bust a move and it sounds like you like him bc if nt then u wouldnt even thought about it at all.. so yea ur a bad friend, u backstabbed ur friend, and i would be mad if u was my "best friend" , we wouldnt even be friends, ur scandalous.