Am i a brat???????please help?

Question

i used to be so nice and generous and would do anything for anyone. now its 3 years on and im nearly 16. you know the movie wildchild people have started comparing me to her(poppy) in some ways.i am worried that i have gone too far in being a (rhymes with titch-it comes up in stars) to everyone,i snap at anyone anytime and it could be something simple like can you pass me a pen.

im so worried how can i get back to the old me

please help

:D

love evie x*x

help???please tell me if i seem like a brat and what i can do to go back to the nice generous me who i think i am underneath.

i dont mind long answers

Answer 1

I feel ya. I find myself doing the same thing sometimes. We have to realize that people make mistakes. Also sometimes we have to dig deeper and search to find what is really the root problem behind our behavior. Are we jealous? Did someone do something that put us in a bad mood and we are taking it out on and innocent person?

I guess the only way to know what to do is to search your heart to see what ugliness is there and then getting rid of it.

Answer 2

you know what, i'm 16 too. and i also think of myself as bratty sometimes too..

being a brat makes you demanding and a selfish person (at least that's what the encarta dictionary said)..

it's not too bad to think highly of yourself sometimes but you sure have to look back and reflect what you're doing. if you you're conscience is troubling you, then i bet it's 99% wrong.. but if it's the thing you really like to do, you may just have to deal with it and so does other people who has to adjust to you..

if you care, then show it..

if you don't, then at least be polite and courteous.

Answer 3

Think before you say/react.  Think to yourself, "Is this person being mean or nice and how will my reaction affect the situation?  What is the least offensive way to go about here (provided you weren't actually offended)."

Answer 4

Hi, is this happening all of the time? If it's only happening around a "certain time of the month" then that could be your issue, hormones. If this is it, then I would suggest talking to your mom, or an older female you feel comfortable talking to. They may be able to help, or suggest something to you. After all, they've already been there, and done that.

If this is happening all of the time try to see if you can keep track of what you were doing at the time, and thinking about. Maybe you can recognize a pattern. But in the meantime, just try to slow down a little before saying something, and keep a smile on your face, yes that can actually make a difference (as long as it's not a big evil grin!)  ;)  

Are you stressed out about anything? If it's not about someone dying or something major like that then try to relax because it's probably not worth worrying about that much.

And, when all is said and done, if you can, talk to your mom about it. That's what she is there for, to help you grow. Tell her how you are feeling, what's been happening, and listen to what she says with an open mind. If you and your mom are close then that is great. If you are not close, maybe talking to her about it might bring you a little closer, and show her that you are maturing. The fact that you recognize that there is a problem with your behavior, and want help correcting it is a good sign. Good luck!

Answer 5

Think long into the future when you have no friends,are suffering from depression because of this and you want nothing more but to end it all. Thats probably going to be your outcome if you keep it up. Before you snap or act all stupid calm yourself,take a breath and act properly. If you can't help it then your are probably just that type. Either way you gotta try harder thats for sure.