Am i a s**t?

Question

so i was raped when i was younger.i told my parents and they did nothing.but my teacher is really really nice.the rape happened years ago.i still live with the person.i told my teacher and he was really nice about it.he calls me now and then.but lately i heard he callls me a s**t behind my back.it's kind of hard to believe that,but you never know.but he seems to be staying away from him.we usually hold each other's hands ''not meanin anything''but when i touched him he pushed me away and just said sorry.their is a rumor around school saying he calls me names with the other teachers.

i think he knows i like him too.he was always there for me when i needed him.now it's like i disgust him.it's not my fault this happened to me.i only touched him,it's not like i have aids or something.his farhter does'nt want me to talk to him because he says i'm poor and only want attention.

do you think i'm over reacting letting a rsape of years ago affect me?

Answer 1

You should be calling a teen crisis line. Immediately. OR a crisis adult line.  

Your teacher has a moral responsibility to you and they are pushing the boundries.  He should not be talking about you at all to other teachers.  Talk to your guidance counseler.. Immediately.  something is wrong here.  I cannot tell if it is your teacher or your rapist who is bothering you.  Either way it should stop immediately.  

YOU still live with the person who raped you???   Your parents did nothing?  This is insane.  Call a crisis line, please.

Answer 2

No, you're not a s**t. What happened to you was horrible, and not your fault.

As for the teacher, report him to the school board ASAP. He is in the WRONG.

Answer 3

If what you're saying is 100% true: HECK NO....

I have 1 word for you: POLICE!!

Answer 4

First of all, it's normal for an attack from years ago to still affect you...it was tramatic so it's not gonna go away very easily. And if your attacker is still living with you, you will not get over it because you have to see his face everyday...why was the police not called? because you shouldn't still be in that environment. And it is very inappropriate for a teacher to be calling his student like that and much more so for him to be holding your hand...he could loose his job for that. Just leave this dude alone!..I understand that he was there for you but the relationship is very inappropriate and if he knew what happened to you why the f*** didn't he call the police! Just end it...when he calls again answer it and tell him in a respectful manner that you appreciate his help and will not be able to communicate with him outside of school anymore.

Answer 5

i was raped years ago. i held it in for about 11 years and i am glad i did. my family coped with it a lot more. they suspected it but never asked, they waited for me to say what happened. when your raped you dont play into it because people will treat you like a victim or judge you and just say you wanted it if you never turned them in. dont go telling everyone, its not something to brag  about. i find most girls that play into rape really were not. i bet they dont believe you. watch who you tell.

Answer 6

umm ok i have seen this question like 4 times now....

But no you are  not a s**t. According to the other questions the dad has threatened you and things maybe he did the same to his son... Maybe he treatened that if he doesnt stay away from you than he is going to fire him... Idk this all sounds like it has some big a*****e controling it just chill and maybe things will get better. but ive said this before and I will say it again you need to go to a counselor and tell them so they can go to the school board and get that jerkoff fired...

Answer 7

What the h**l are you talking about? You a sick freak if you touch your freaking teacher. If this is real, then yeah, your a s**t.

Answer 8

Its inappropriate for a teacher to be calling you on a regular basis, let alone holding your hand (you've got to be kidding).  If this teacher is really concerned, he should involve the police.  End of discussion.  Whatever "relationship" you have with him needs to end now.  Otherwise, he needs to be in trouble as well.

As for the person that raped you, you need to report it to the police.  The person that did it needs to be punished.  Why is the person living in your house?!  Is it a sibling or something?

Answer 9

SO YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH A TEACHER?  DID I READ THAT CORRECTLY?   IF SO, HE SHOULD BE IN JAIL!  SECONDLY, YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT AND IF YOUR PARENTS AREN'T GOING TO PROTECT YOU SOMEONE NEEDS TO...GO TO THE POLICE OR SOMEONE YOU TRUST... WHETHER IS WAS 2 YEARS AGO OR 2 DAYS AGO...RAPE IS RAPE AND IT WILL EFFECT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE..YOU NEED HELP!!