Am i abnormal to other teenage girls or a recluse ? ?

Question

okay so i dont like to go out much, i have been off on holiday and i havent left the house for 4 weeks. i have two weeks left and i am going to london for the weekend with my parents next weeks. i just dont want to go, but i am. I can never be bothered to get dressed and i stay in pyjamas all DAY, people always tell me that i dont have a life.... but its how i choose tol ive.

im 13

im a girl

what do you think about this, thanks for your time...

Answer 1

Hey, I'm 15 and I also hate leaving the house. My friends go to a shopping centre every Thursday and every Sunday and I've never been with them once... but sometimes I do feel lonley. It's more my parents won't let me. But I hate going out. In the holidays a few weeks ago Mum tried to make our family go to Sydney every day of the holidays and I hated it. D;

I don't think your abnormal

If it's how you choose to live then you go on and live like that ^____^

Answer 2

It seems like you're not enjoying life. You should always do what makes you happy. You're normal like other girls it's just that you're not the OUT-GOING type of girl. It's completely normal. Sometimes, I'm like that too. But, you really have to look deeper in your life. You should be with your friends. Have dinner together with your family. You also have to get dressed even though you're just in your shorts and top. Something casual. But if you're really comfortable with PJ's, why not? As long as you take a bath and you think that what you're doing is what you want... Be  contented in life. Everything happens for a reason. You were here to have a purpose in life but you're not yet ready to let it out.

Answer 3

do what you want to do.

Answer 4

I'd say that I agree with the previous posts in that to wish for solitude is not a fault.  However, the fact that you stay in your pjs all day etc - does this also mean you are very inactive?  

  You should try and boost your energy levels through a little bit of exercise (I know, I know) you'll feel much better afterwards.  Then you can enjoy your extraction from humanity much like myself.  All my best work is done in solitude.

Pax,

Ape

Answer 5

You're anti-social, but not a recluse (You still have contact with society).

I'm more or less the same way... I prefer solitude.

Answer 6

Do whatever makes you happy. Wanting to be "alone" doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing, it's just a preferrence. Sometimes I like to be alone and enjoy the peace of mind. You are 13. Just be happy with whatever you decide to do, or not do. Soon you'll be out of the house, having to pay bills and everything......so enjoy while you can (not to say being an adult is horrible :))

~cheers!