Am i being paranoid? Or should i be worried?

Question

Ok so me and my boyfreind have been together for about 5 months now. He always tells me he loves me and i really do believe it. He is 16 almost 17 and i am 17, turning 18 in feb. I already graduted high school and he is still going. Of course i am worrying about him and other girls, although i have a lot of trust in him. He tells me that he tells other girls all the time he has a girlfriend[me]. Just a few minutes ago i had a random girl write me on myspace saying"she thinks that she has to tell me something really important". She is at school so im guessing it will be a while before she writes back. I dunno why but the first thing that came to mind was him doing something with another girl. Do you think i have anything to worry about or am i just being paranoid?

Answer 1

When someone is in a happy relationship there is always someone who will try to make trouble .I would tell her i am not interested in anything you have to say if its in any way personal.Let her know in advance that you wont be playing any games and then if it really is important then she will just say it and not keep you worrying like this.  

Answer 2

To have a good relationship, trust has to be there. If you don't have a good reason to believe that he would fool around on you, don't worry about it.

Answer 3

You should just talk to him about it. If you trust him then there shouldn't be much to worry about.

Answer 4

Ignore katherine sweetie

she slept with her stepdad (i answered her question i know lol)

I would be worried and abit paranoid as well,

when he gets back have a serious talk with him about

how your feelings.I dont wont to make you feel worse

but a high school with load of pretty girls and preps.?

He could be..Have a convo with that girl But make sure she isent lieing

Answer 5

I don't mean to alarm you or burst your balloon, but what is more important for you to worry about is your legal situation.  In all of the US it is statutory rape for an adult (18) to have any kind of sexual relationship with a minor (under 18) even if the minor says it is OK.  Prosecution of females violating this law is increasing across the nation.  You could be arrested and convicted of a s*x crime.  If convicted, you could serve time in prison.  Worse than that is after your release, you will have to register with law enforcement as a s*x offender for the rest of your life wherever you go and have other restrictions like where you can live, places from which you have to stay away, etc.

The only way out of this situation is either you marry the guy (His parents will have to grant permission for the marriage.), or you stay away from him until he is legal at 18.  Otherwise you run the risk of law enforcement showing up sometime to take you to jail, especially if another girl decides to pull the jealous routine and report you.