there's two parts:
part 1- my girlfriend said she'd call me at 3pm when she had family plans, and her mom is a little impartial to me, so she told me she would call me when it was over. Come 530, she called and told me she was out all day doing something else (with her mom still, but at 3 she was hanging out with a friend, however, i could have been texted and warned of a change of plans) . She's telling me that it's sort of my fault for not putting forth effort to call. Is it even fair to say that?
part 2: Shortly after, I ask if we can move back plans because my friend was leaving for the army. she said she wanted to see me but she kept saying "i know you want to go, so just go". I kept asking if she was sure, and she claimed she was every time that she was sure.
Reluctant as she sounded, should there be any argument, in both cases where she should be angry/pissed off at me, or should she be annoyed with herself for being stubborn and not being so straight forward?
sorry its so long.
i just need a random answer, and i don't really have too many people to talk to atm.
thank youuu all.
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