Am i being too logical here?

Question

well i know its just a silly crush and it will pass and i seriously feel that even though he doesn't know that he brightens up my day and that the mere sight of him is enough to make me smile, still im just wondering why i am too logical,i know for sure that i would not be able to make his world better and that he does not even talk to me that much in class, anyway am i right for not doing anything at all since i dont think he would even think about me.

Answer 1

No you are wrong for not doing anything.

He could be the love of your life all you have to do is take a chance and even if it doesn't work out you won't regret it later on in life,instead of wondering if it could've worked and worrying about it everyday.

Answer 2

Silly crushes sometimes point to "Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet--which would be worth your time as you wait for him to notice you.

Males prefer respect even more than love (females are the complement, preferring love even more than respect).  Hence, if he is working on his car, or playing a sport, your ability to sincerely ask a genuine question will mean more to him than Valentines.

Hence, if he's good at maths, he'd doubtless value your genuine question about a problem, as that would respect him.

Answer 3

...illogical...to yourself...you hide behind fears of your own ...if you were to say "...HI" you would at least have released the illogical feelings within you...

...and secondly, his acknowledgement will satisfy a simple, courteous communication between two individuals...

...good luck...

Answer 4

Actually, with all respect, you are falling into a very common error,"The way I think it, that is the way it is" you are assuming that because he doesn't talk to you much at class he doesn't like you. This is a false premise, because you can't know for sure whether he likes you or not based only on what you think is the case. You are then taking this false premise to bring a false conclusion: "I am right in doing anything, since I don't think. he would even think about me.." And this false conclusion is in turn causing your indecision, pasivity and your inaction.

You are acting on a false assumption, and on this your logic is faulty.

The only way you will ever know if he likes you or not is if he tells you, and in this matter we are already on a different playground where logic is not going to be of much avail to you.

But logically speaking, it could be the case that he like you and he is shy, or you intimidate him, or Who knows waht else, so you can't commit the fallacy of "C u m hoc ergo propter hoc" which means:" If a occurs with b, then a is because of b" see?? There is no causal relation that can link his behaviour to his inner feelings. (And in these last lines is the language a logician uses). This is as far as logic can help you, the rest belong to the heart, and in matters of the heart reason is mute, lol.  What you goota do is be honest and think on one thing: "I like him, he is gotta be mine" and make the move.

So, moving to the emotional plane..If you want to find out, you must communicate with him and let him know your heart, if he corresponds Great! If he doesn't Bad, but at least know you will know the truth and move on, no?

Good luck to you and let him see, Ok?

Answer 5

yeah u are going to logical here,why u think he will never think about u .time changes............and with it people too.Talk to him a little bit more and if u turn good friends there can be a chance.u never know???

Answer 6

I can't say that any crush is silly.  As long as it lasts it is meaningful and important to us. It proves it is silly only after it ends! I believe you must show to him some interest.  Give him a hint that in case he comes closer, you won't... dump him!  You never know, he might be really interested in you. I remember when I was at school, someone I liked so much, was not speaking to me because he was afraid I would reject him!  This is why I am telling you this. Just show him a bit of interest. If he does not reciprocate, ok, don't bother anymore. Anyway, you already are taking enough joy by his presence as you say. It is good enough.

Good luck.

Answer 7

a closed mouth doesn't get fed.  open up tell him how u feel.  that way you will know what's up instead of assuming.  

Answer 8

I think it is very often wrong to use logic and reason in such matters of the heart. Trust your intuition and instinct on this one - it very often leads us truthfully and helpfully.

"The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing" - Pascal.