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Am i being used or just dating a cheapskate?

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Ok, I am dating someone who is making me very confused. He broke up with me because i was supposedly selfish. So, now his facebook and myspace say single..yet we are together just like before.. Anyways, technically we are broken up. He never takes me out. Last time he took me out, was July 4th (1 month ago) when his parents came to town and we all went to see a movie. We r both 26 yrs old. He wants me to do his laundry for him( he has a washer and dryer, I don't).. I then have to go to my parents and stay the night to get his laundry washed in dried (takes 3 hours)..Mind it, I have 2 jobs working 60 hours a week. He has one works no more than 30. He expects me after I get off from a shift of (830 in the morning until 9 at night) to come by his house, pick up his laundry, take it to my parents, wait for it to wash and dry, then drop them back off at his house at midnight. I wouldnt mind doing nice things for him if he did them for me once in awhile..He told me since I cooked him dinner, bought his subway, and did his laundry he would take me out on my off night..You know where he took me? drive through of arbys...He brags about how much money he has..He has saved 12,000 since january..didnt get me a birthday present because he said he wanted to keep my expectations low, but then got mad when his bday came around and i didn't get him anything?? We've never done anything i wanted to do in 7 month..every weekend it is going out on his boat (which i don't even like to do)..he's only come and pickedme up once in 7 months..all the other times i drive over there..I've probably spent hundreds of dollars in gas..has he ever offered to help pay? no..i think i'm answering my own question...

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  1. You got it!!!


  2. Wow....i cant believe ur selling urself soooooooooo short....why do u act as if ur a maid...i mean doing things for ur boyfriend like that is no problem if he handles his business for u....U cant allow a man to not play his part in a relationship...how can u be commited to someone who only cares about himself. U sound more like his mom than his gf..leave him..hes not good...n ur 2 good

  3. YEAH, you answered your own question.  May be you had to sort it out as you wrote it.  He sounds like a user.  Do yourself a favor, do not use any more energy, time or money on this loser.  You are way too good for him.  He wants and wants and gets and gets.  This relationship is one sided.  Do yourself a favor, lose him.  You win, because you are the better person.  You treated him like you wanted to be treated, with nothing from him in return.  Now, this is your chance to be totally free to find someone that will appreciate you.

  4. i think you did answer your own question.

    He doesnt sound like a nice person and I wouldnt waste your time

    he sounds very inconsiderate and just wants you when he wants you and no relationship should be that way.

  5. Yeah you answered your own question. I'm sorry but he sounds like a mooch!

  6. I never heard of such a cheap guy in all my life, seriously. Do nothing for him.

  7. It is time for a change and you should dump this guy and find someone that treats you with more respect and not a door mat. He will realize afterwards how he had it made. Move on is my advice.

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