when i was 6 i caught my mother cheating on my father and when they were getting a divorce i decided to live with my father and my brother decided to live with my mother. when i was 9 i looked for my mother and we began to talk for only a few months then when i was 12 and 15 i did the same i looked for her and we only talked for a month or two, at that time she already remarried and had children with her new husband. when i moved to new york when i was 15 i never heard from her again, when i was 16 i reverted to islam alhumdullilah got married at 17 gave birth at 18 now i am 21, when i was 19 my aunt got in contact with her and i talked to her and i was confused to start talking to her again cuz she never looked for me ever since my parents got a divorce, my father has always taken care of me and i feel that it would be betrayal even though my father never talked bad about my mother or ever forbade me to talk to her. i feel nothing towards my mother no love no anger but i was reading in the book called the ideal muslimah and in the quran that allah dislikes those who break up kinship and that it is haram even though my family may not be muslim. my question is do i have to talk to my mother even though i havent heard from her in years even before i reverted to isalm? i mean i know nothing about this lady nor she knows nothing about me. its been years
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