Am i fighting a loosing battle are there no good girls out there should i just turn g*y??????

Question

girls please help me im young tall and fit why do you all cheat on me ( 20 years old 6.2" brown hair and i love to cook )

Answer 1

You're only 20 for god's sake. Enjoy playing the field while you're young. There are plenty of loving, faithful girls out there. The right one will fall in your lap one day. Try the north east-we're lovely up here!

Answer 2

Well don't turn g*y, I'm sure that you wouldn't like it.

And you are only young, so don't give up just yet.

Think about where you met women, for example clubs are the least likely place to met a partner.

Good luck!

Answer 3

You just keep running into the wrong women.  Try going somewhere else to meet people.  Dont give up hope, there wil be someone out there for you.

Answer 4

Being g*y is the nastiest, most DISGUSTING way out. Just don't, the less g*y people, the better. Do you like to drink? You should try that.

Josh;)

! GO ENGLAND !

Answer 5

I'll start by answering that being g*y is not a choice and it isn't something  you turn to.

Look at yourself first.  You need to value who you are before you can ask someone else to find value in you.  In many ways, you may not be the kind of guy most young women your age are looking for.  You use the term "good girls" as this is purely subjective and there really isn't any way to define what your version of "good" is.  The reverse question should be asked of you...which is..."What kind of girl would date a guy like me?"  Look at your own set of values, determine what your goals are and ask yourself who would be a match for that.

You are only 20 years old and that is still a very young age.  Take your time and mature some more.  Learn more about the bigger world outside your neighborhood and your small group of friends.  The other thing is that beauty is only skin deep, which is something that "good" girls will look past to find a man who will value them, make them feel secure and protect them.  Good girls will be attracted to a good man.

Do some thinking about your own life and think about what makes you attractive.  You will find your answers there.

Answer 6

No you are not fighting a lose battle.  Neither are you going to turn g*y. Take your time in picking your partner. Don't be in a rush you are still young pray that GOD almighty will give you that who will look after your heart and would not go about cheating on you

Answer 7

you can go ahead and try... good luck!

Answer 8

Where are you looking for these good girls?  Maybe you're looking for love in all the wrong places.  Good Girls don't hang out in clubs and such.  Try the library.  You're young! You have plenty of time!  When you're without a girl friend concentrate on yourself and spend time with friends and family.  Sometimes when you stop searching is when you find what you're looking for.

Answer 9

Stop looking. When the time is right and the girl is right you will find it. Let it come to you. Just relax and enjoy life. No need to rush.

Answer 10

Unfortunately you haven't been blessed with the right lady. In this day and age there are few left that have morals and a good personality. They are few and far between, but they are out there. There are more bad than good.  Keep trying. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 11

Don't give up!  You just haven't met the right girl yet.  You sound lovely and you're only young.  The key is to stop looking for her, it's only then you'll find her.  I know it sounds like rubbish but it's true, promise!

Answer 12

Maybe you're choosing Ms. Wrong.  Time to re-evaluate your attraction to LOSER CHICKS.  Kinda like girlz that go for the bad boyz.............  You sound really nice, but you don't choose wisely.

Answer 13

There are a lot of good girls out there.  Don't give up, someday you may just turn around and there she will be. For now, try doing something new, you never know who you may meet, or who that person might know.

Answer 14

You're not too clingy are you?  That's a big turn off for girls.  Don't get me wrong, girls need a guy that will give them attention, but you also want to be with someone that has a personality in the sense that they have their interests and we have ours.  And if the interests are different sometimes, that's cool, more to learn about and experience.  

Or maybe you're just not being picky enough?  Raise your standards.  If you've dated the same kind of girls in the past, learn from it.  Sure it hurts, but take it as a lesson so you won't find yourself in the same situation again.  Figure out what you did like about your past girlfriends & relationships & what you didn't.  Also figure out what the past lacked in that you know you need.  And make a list of 3-4 traits that are a MUST in a girlfriend.  

Don't dispair - someone's out there that's right for you.  But until you stumble across from her, figure yourself out and enjoy youself in the meantime.  Things always happen when you least expect it & things happen for a reason (cliched, I know, but that's what I do believe).  Hope that helps & sorry about the cheating - I know how that feels.

Answer 15

Yeah just turn g*y you know you want to and just using this as an excuse.

Answer 16

If you live in England, yes.

Answer 17

i heard you turned g*y a while back....love to cook, an uphill gardener if ever i saw one

Answer 18

Don't worry,the right girl will come.For now,just spruce up your cooking skills to go impress that future dream girl.

Answer 19

Well before trying to find that perfect someone, look at your self Ask yourself some questions 1. Do i come on to strong 2.Am i over protective 3. do i just let girls walk over me 4.Am i always giving but never receiving 5. Am i conceited or over confident. if you answered yes to half of these questions take it easy for a while. stop trying to find Ms. right and she just might find you. anyway your only twenty date a little while longer.

Answer 20

They do say the grass is greener on the otherside but don't you think your taking the p**s just a wee bit. Get over it and move on also if you are choosing the wrong women may be you need to change your views on your life first before finding a new partner.

Answer 21

You sound sweet.  Too bad you're two years too young.  I'd probably date you.

Answer 22

well you're a bit young for me....but if you were a lil older...i'd say move to the U.S. and i'd date you...as long as you're a cutie...good luck !

Answer 23

many people are cheaters or have been cheated on, but that doesn't mean you won't find a trustworthy girl.  also, you can't "turn g*y."  if you're seriously thinking about "turning g*y," then you already are.  come out of the closet already.  if you just said that for humorous emphasis then hang in there - she'll come along someday!  in the meantime, have fun & sew those wild oats.

Answer 24

OK, get smart. Plan a barbecue to show of your cooking skills. Print invitations to show off your computer skills. Invite only girls - to show them they all have to compete. Don't chase them - be polite, charming, charismatic and let them want you! Make the atmosphere romantic with coloured lights and candles. You'll have no competition - no other guys around. I can guarantee they will all be talking about you! Make sure you have plenty of booze for them too. Make it clear - they have to find their own way home - but take the one home who comes across as most honest. Beautiful girls are so in love with themselves, they have little left for guys. They cheat - because they can. So be aware of the girls who are polite and serious and not out to impress with skirts that are short and tops that are low. Look for the nice honest girls - the type you can trust with your life - you may need to one day.

Answer 25

look mate its not good to b talking like that! i was 20 when i had my first proper relationship. there is know rush really, just take your time and enjoy life and your mates to full! you will meet the right girl eventually! just don't look, i know it sounds stupid but the girl that comes when you least expect it is usually the one that works out the best. and every thing you describe yourself to b is wot a girl is looking 4! don't give up the ghost just yet your only young!!!!!

Answer 26

Oh, yeah, sure, go ahead and go g*y... like there are any good GUYS out there either. Maybe you should try fixing the problem that is causing your girlfriends to cheat.. and if you really, truly don't think you are doing anything wrong, maybe you need to find a woman that is more mature than the ones you have been dating. (or maybe you need therapy)

Answer 27

No don't turn g*y!!! It doesn't matter if you never find the right girl. Just please don't turn g*y!!! I beg you!!

I would rather live without a girl for the rest of my life than turn g*y. (Only my opinion of course)