Am i g*y or is it a phase ?

Question

im 14 and i keep on watching g*y p**n,and looking at men when i go to the beach or something . but the thing is i liked girls not long ago

am i turning g*y? or is it just a phase¿?

Answer 1

i think it is just a phase, bcoz i have a same problem as you. i also keep on watching g*y p**n and don't really like p**n that involved opposite s*x. im looking at men not only at the beach, but anywhere. anywhere when i saw someone handsome, i will keep looking at her. but in my mind, i always think of my dream girl, i nvr thought about dream boy. i always thought my girl friend look like who and who, her behavior, her attitude. i dun think im bi bcoz i really nvr think of guy. so, dun worry, it just a phase.

Answer 2

You will know in the future if you are g*y or bi. At your age you are probably just curious and you will figure it out eventually but until then dont worry about it you have alot of life to live to be worrying about things at 14 years old. You are watching g*y p**n for a reason and only you know that reason and no one here can answer the question that you already know the answer too.

Answer 3

At your age most guys go through a bisexual phase, and your sexuality may not settle down until you are in your mid twenties. So my advice is to go with the flow and do what your body tells you, and don't fight against it. If you end up g*y then you can't change that. If you continue to have attractions to men, then please DO NOT get married to a woman.

Answer 4

You will turn g*y.

Answer 5

Just let nature take it's course and you'll find out (without over thinking it) in due time. You are who you are, and to try to be something other than that is unhealthy. At 14 you have a lot of personal growth and discovery ahead of you. Peruse what you enjoy because you enjoy it....while you enjoy it....and go with the ebb and flow.

Don't let external pressure influence you. Don't try to be something that you're not. Be glad that at age 14 you have the internet as an easy tool discover that you are not alone in whatever your interests and turn-ons may be -- while being informed and empowered.

Don't pay attention to the stupid stuff some people say. You have to weed through some BS to get to the quality people. There is no real cut-and-dry answer to your question at this point. There is nothing wrong with being a unique individual with a unique identity and interests. Enjoy your discovery period.

Answer 6

you are turning g*y. i have a quote. "life sucks and then you die" -Breaking Dawn

Answer 7

your a young man and your hormones are basically keeping you guessing you could go either way at your age so don't try and classify yourself yet  

Answer 8

Do you get a erection when watch women and men having s*x? If you do then nothing to worry about. If you only get turned on by men then you seem to be headed toward being g*y.  Good Luck.

Answer 9

that mean your hormones are going to burst and try to control your s*x appetite.if not you will turn into g*y.....

Answer 10

Nah its normal to have these feelings.  Probably if you were full-on g*y you wouldn't be thinkin girls were hot. At your age sexuality is spongy and floats around a bit.  

First of all, Don't feel guilty or wrong

Second, If it feels good do it!

Third (most important!) Always use a condom !!!

Answer 11

I believe that you are just merely going through a phase and it will surely blow over. i also find myself watching g*y p**n and looking at the young guys in the bathroom, but i know it is just a phase because i have a girlfriend, and i love her.

Answer 12

im kinda going through the same phase, but im finally deciding that im straight

Answer 13

well it could be a phase. it could be ur curious. or maybe ur gonna be bi. i was like that 2 even before ur age and it bothered me 4 so long until realy i read about other boys on here who felt the same way. im stil not sure what im gonna be but 4 now i have dated girls but i still look at g*y p**n, i ceck other guys out at the beach or showers or wherever, i m********e an think of guys sometimes an i figure who cares. i only kno it an it dont bother no one so i just go with it.  im 16 now an i figure ill figure it out soon. so dont sweat it dude. it might turn out ur g*y but for now just go with what feels good. u got time 2 figure it out

Answer 14

omg u r a g*y, go see a doctor

Answer 15

I think you are. Maybe it's just a phase. Or maybe you're bi.

Answer 16

well would you **** a guy? but even if you would most likely it is just a stage. i'm going thourgh it myself. it a wierd thought but there is only two thing you can with either go with it or just past it of like it nothing but im telling you that now that you have started it might be hard for you to stop until your mind is ready for you to stop and if your wondering it might stop if your really not g*y but you very well could be g*y that for you to decide.

Answer 17

Nah sounds like you're g*y to me

Answer 18

You are only 14, and just about any p**n, g*y or straight, will get someone your age aroused.     Watching any sexual activity is arousing, regardless of your sexual orientation.

Perhaps you are g*y, or bi, or straight--only you can discover what you are.     It could be a phase, and maybe you're straight.

You didn't mention what you actually desire sexually, male or female.

Don't be in a hurry; you've got plenty of time at your age to discover your sexuality.     Whatever you are, whatever you become, learn to enjoy and accept yourself for what you are.     There are many fine people of all orientations.  

You're still going to be in puberty for several years, you have more growing to do physically and emotionally.    Your hormones are raging, and there will probably come a point in time when you will be more certain about your sexuality.

The best of luck to you.

Answer 19

Ah, I too watch g*y p**n. But I like a girl... So that could make me a bi, but I know for sure that I am not attracted to boys, so I am straight.

What about you? Are you attracted to males?

Answer 20

Hard to say, could be a phase. At 14 most guys get turned on by pretty much anything so who knows?

I would just wait and see how you feel later and whether your feelings and attractions change. One thing I would recommend is maybe going easy on the p**n while you are still so young, if you look at too much now by the time you get to the age when it is the right time to have s*x you will have so many expectations and be so used to p**n that regular s*x may not seem that interesting to you. I don't think there is any harm in checking it out once in a while though.

Answer 21

Could just be a phase...most likely your hormones running wild.

Dont dwell on it :)

Answer 22

I go through the same thing.  I think it is just a phase for me but everyone is different.  I think I find guys more attractive but I can only see myself being physical with a girl.  It does cause a lot of confusion, but the best thing to do is be honest with yourself and what you want.

Answer 23

I was going to say that maybe you are going through a phase. However, with the additional details, I would say that there is a good chance that you are g*y.

Answer 24

It could be a phase. You're too young yet. Wait a couple of years and see what you like then.

Answer 25

it may be just a phase! but wait till you are a little bit other. is not easy to tell if you are g*y at your age! good luck and don't worry about it for now! ;)