Am i going to be a bad mom?

Question

please no rude comments i dont use this site to get rude comments from people frist off

okay so im 20 im getting married sept 28th and we found out i was preg a couple wweeks ago now im 7weeks and i am getting so sick and having to use the bathroom like 5 times an hour and i hate it i hate being preg i wish the baby would just come out i hate being so emotoinal and being sick

so my question is do u think im gonna be a bad mom cause i hate being preg, or will these feelings change when i stop feeling sick?

Answer 1

MA'AM THAT'S NORMAL please dont feel like that your baby is a blessing TRUST ME GOD IS IN CONTROL

Answer 2

Not at all. A lot of women don't like being pregnant! But you are still SO early on in your pregnancy. Once you are in your second trimester, you might love it!! You won't be sick anymore, you will get your energy back, and you will start to feel more PREGNANT rather than SICK. People will notice and you might end up loving pregnancy. Almost no one likes the first trimester. But even if you hate it the WHOLE time... it's all worth it for that little bundle of joy you will be holding in 8 months!  

Answer 3

I think you'll be fine. Some people love being pregnant and some people hate it. It just depends on the person. I'm sure that when it gets closer to your due date or even when you get the big belly that you will probably change your mind. If you don't that doesn't say anything about what kind of mother you will be!  

Answer 4

ok, well, the sick feelings USUALLY stop with the end of the first trimester, so just hang in there...the reason i say usually is because with some women, they are sick all thru the pregnancy.

some doctors will prescribe you something if it interferes with your life that badly. but then, some doctors wont.

so, just hang in there...

this doesnt mean you are a bad mom. heck, i want this one out and im 28 weeks, ive wanted her out since day one, lol. i was sick my whole first trimester, now im tired all the time. that, and im huge and cant move all that well...

so youre not the only one... just take it easy...and dont worry...

by the time you feel the baby move, you'll get over all the pain you went through...but then youll get new pains...

no one said pregnancy was fun...but its worth it.

if u wanna talk, feel free to email me

Answer 5

That is normal very normal! happens all the time

Answer 6

your feelings will change when you hold your baby, just by you being concerned about your feelings show that your hearts in the right place, try not to worry its just your hormones, welcome to motherhood and good luck with the rest of your pregnancy hope things chill out soon x

Answer 7

awww dont stress to much i know its hard i actually hated being pregnant sick morning noon and night then i got diabetes blurrrr!! but you know what for what i went thru i would do it like that and more just for the beautiful reward at the end its all worth it....it doesnt mean you will be a bad mum good luck

Answer 8

Im sur they will change as everything else change

Answer 9

you will NOT be a bad mom just because you don't like being pregnant. I myself am pregnant, 12 weeks, and hate it also. It's so draining and not fun at all. But...it's temporary and it'll get better. Once you stop feeling sick, you will probably look forward to your baby being born. I want the baby to come out now, too! But it has to grow and I have to wait at least 4-5 more months. I felt somewhat the same with my first baby, and turned out to be a great mom, and love him so much.

Answer 10

Your feeling will stop because things will get better soon, I hate morning sickness too but hey I don't blamed this baby for making me sick. You don't seem bad mom, I know how you felt, You will be feel better soon!  

Answer 11

my sister was going through the same stuff. and i really doubt you will.. who would enjoy having to pee everytime 10 minutes? Nobody. Its just emotions. Once you have your baby all that will change because you'll see what you brought into life. =]

Answer 12

I am 36 weeks and I felt the same way when I was in your shoes, Truth is that pregnancy is a blessing and or miracle but it is HELLLLL....When I was in my early stages I felt like I didnt even want the baby and I wished that I wouldnt have gotten pregnant I felt bad cause of the negative stuff I said but I believed it was because of the horribleness I was going through and as soon as my pregnancy got better I could not wait to see and feel my bundle of joy. Your not going to be a bad mom, and yes the feelings will change just give it time

Answer 13

Just be patient... your feelings will change. My first trimester wasn't fun at all.  

Answer 14

Its ok to hate feeling sick, and it's ok to hate being emotional...and it's even ok to hate being pregnant...it's not enjoyable for everyone....

BUT a big part of being a good parent...is remembering that it's not about you anymore.  I'm sure that may be difficult for you since you're only 20...and typically we're pretty selfcentered at that age...(I'm not trying to be rude...I'm just stating a common known fact)'

Nobody likes feeling sick or like they're going crazy...but if you can keep in mind that you're doing it for your baby...it may be easier to tolerate.

Being sick of being sick is no indication of your parenting skills.

Your ability to set your own needs aside for the benefit of your child is.

So short answer...no I dont think you're going to be a "bad mom" just because you feel like c**p and you don't like it....that's normal....but think about the other stuff.

Answer 15

FIrst off, I am also 20 and just got married in February I had just gotten a good paying job but had to quit due to the stress it could put on my baby. I found out i was pregnant in May and had morning sickness all day every day until about 13 weeks. You are probably just having those feelings because you are emotional and because you are sick. Its not fun being sick, I absolutley hate vomiting and that was all I did for literally 2 months! You aren't going to be a bad mom you just have a lot going on and it may have came as a surprise.. Wait til you see that first ultrasound.. :) Good luck and I hope you start feeling better soon!